TNJaguar
Active 2007–2007
(First time poster, glad to find another believer in Biblical equality)
I’ve never understood how the idea that women will “desire to rule” men has any staying power. I’m a survivor of eight years of Christian schools and a graduate-escapee of one of the strictest Christian universities in the nation, and I’ve never seen or heard of a woman trying to rule a man. I’ve known of plenty of women who have sacrificed everything they were to win a man’s love… and fail. I’ve known of women who have stayed in abusive relationships and tried to be perfect in order to win a man’s love. I’ve known women who have married unbelievers because they wanted a man who would love them. I’ve heard women who have chosen to idolize their husbands because their churches have taught them to do so. But rule? The closest I can think of for a woman trying to rule a man is one who tries to save a man from his own mistakes/sins/whatever, and even then that’s a desire for love and acceptance and not an open attempt to rule anyone.