OT pattern of male priests, apostles, elders, and husbands — but also male kings with no clear command

Only male priests, only male apostles, only male elders, husbands as heads. Some patriarchalists flatten this into: men should be in all societal authority roles. But there's no instruction in Scripture that only men can be kings — that may be human culture rather than divine command. Patriarchalists sometimes say judges, presidents, CEOs should all be men.