Q&A: A wife navigating a husband's anger should maintain internal clarity about whether she sinned, and not accept blame she doesn't own.

Mike separates respect from agreement or cowering. He advises keeping God at the front of mind so that after a difficult moment the wife can honestly assess before God whether she sinned. If she honoured Christ in her behavior, she can internally distinguish: 'this is his issue.' He acknowledges this is harder when the husband actively blames her for his anger, but the internal clarity — confirmed before God — is the anchor.