Wives submit vs. children obey — different words, different authority structures; discipline is for children not wives

Mike notes Scripture uses different words for wives (hupotasso — submit/be subject) and children (hupakouo — obey). Wives are not instructed to "obey" as children are. Fathers are warned not to provoke children to anger (implying there is a disciplinary role that can be misused), but no parallel warning is given to husbands regarding wives because no disciplinary role exists. Underdiscipline can also produce angry, rebellious children.