Both pro-life and pro-choice movements believe they hold the moral high ground. The pro-choice movement has inverted morality — helping a woman kill her offspring is seen as a moral good. The conversation breaks down because they're talking past each other.

Pro-choice people aren't amoral; they genuinely believe they're defending women. But because they're blind to the baby, their moral compass is inverted. Pro-lifers focus on the child; pro-choicers focus on the woman. The result: they talk past each other. The pro-life movement does support women, but that's secondary to the life-or-death issue of the child.