Biblical love vs. secular love: secular love = affirming whatever someone wants for themselves (happiness as highest good). Biblical love = wanting for others what GOD wants for them, which may differ from what they want. The key: the two greatest commandments in order — love God first, then love others. Loving others is contextualized by loving God first.

Secular worldview: no God, everyone's their own authority, happiness is the greatest good → love = affirm whatever someone wants. Christian worldview: love God first (greatest commandment) → loving others means wanting what God wants for them. These worldviews produce different definitions of love. Teaching kids to see this as a logical worldview difference, not just disagreement.