Cheryl Schatz

gengwall,
You said:

Not so! Men tend to enforce control through physical means, making it much more visible to the outside world. But that is no proof that men are more controlling, just that they go about it in a different way than women.

I think that men tend to be more controlling and women tend to be more manipulative.

Do I think that marriage is “an irretrievably unbalanced relationship and it’s all men’s fault”. No. I do believe that the problems in Adam and Eve’s relationship from what was recorded in Genesis was 100% his fault. But that does not follow through from all of our marriages. Every marriage and every situation is different but there are things that sinful humans bring into the marriage because of their gender.

I really like Mark Gungor’s series “Laugh your way to a better marriage”. To me he hits the nail on the head regarding gender issues in marriage.