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TL – You can get access to the Strong’s greek & hebrew lexicons including Thayer’s lexicon through Blueletterbible.org
here is ‘haegeomai’ http://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm?Strongs=G2233&t=KJV

(Other resources are also available at other sites – I find them best used in conjunction with each other.)

Moreover, I did not say that husbands are exempt from christian submission or wives from love – but that in context of the marital relationship – out of the broad scope of all christian relationships; wives are instructed specifically to submission and husbands to love their wives.