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“Rather I am thinking of a share holder analogy. Christ holds the full amount of the shares available. 100% of the shares, all the decision making clout, the one who determines the course of all things. thoughts?”

Tiffany, #451
I am not following your meaning here. Christ is God and knows all things, but does not make our decisions for us at all. He gives us wisdom and understanding as we ask and as we can handle. But God has given us the ability to choose many things. That is how we are able to sin. It’s a bad choice.

Are you suggesting that husbands have full authority, 100%, over their wives to choose her life for her?