Tiffany

We all hope it is normative for all Christian husbands who love their wives no matter what their preferred theological lables might be. And no matter who it is and how often they do such it will always be praise worthy and hopefully never taken for granted.

Yes, hence my confusion. It was stated in the two quotes I included that it was thought that this was not normative and the others needed to learn to do this. I made allowance in my comment that I misunderstood the meaning in which case I asked if it is already normative then why was the reaction what it was.