gengwall

Hi Craig,

I was responding more to your comp hat than your marital reality. Many soft-comps actually do try to make a distinction between “mutual agreement” and the final decision. They actually do claim that although they and their spouse had a mutual agreement to follow a course of action, the “decision” was still theirs and theirs alone. So, I was just pointing out the contradiction in a typical comp argument, not trying to pin that argument on you as a practical example of your own marriage. Sorry for the confusion.