Retha

Waneta, perhaps you can read Charis ( http://hupotasso.wordpress.com/ ) on the topic of submitting in everything. She say the tenses are translated wrong from Greek, the message is: Wifes are subject to their husbands in everything.

That is not a command, say Charis, but more like being subject to gravity. It is a statement that your man have an influence on you, wether good or bad.