Donna

Ok thanks for clarification. I have been a christian for 3 decades now but only in PCA for 6 years.
I remember many years ago hearing a pastor of mine say the following and I thought it was pretty good.

“Whoever has the greater insight into any situation has the greater responsibility to walk in love.”

We know God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble. Being humble enough to be possibly wrong is what it takes. If resistance is that strong it is proably fear based.. Fear of looseing control. I don’t suspect its because of the love of the truth. There is something else going on under the surface. I think it was Watchman Nee who stated that a man who has to tell others he’s in authority does not have authority. Its all heart stuff and how one gets into positions. Women have to die to self just the same as men and study to show themself approved. And when God himself supports people, in this case woma/en,resisting them… be careful you are not fighting what God is doing.
Pace yourself Cheryl. Stay rested and stay balanced in other areas of your life too. You have an awesome family. Sounds cold up there. I hope you ski!!!