Charis

FWIW, Cheryl, I learned in counseling that the crises are the opportunites for the greatest growth and progress; and that the furnace gets really hot before the breakthrough. The crises in my marriage had the same elements: insults, put downs, power and control. They sound like mean, unchristian bullies, but they are really afraid. Afraid of losing control/power.

God taught me to REST.
“take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for my yoke is easy and my burden is light and you will find REST for your souls”
“in repentance and REST is my salvation
in quietness and trust is my strength”