Cheryl

Charis,
Thanks for the links. They both worked so you are better then you thought!

Pastor Darlene,
I see the issue of calling in two ways. The best way is when both are there together in a supportive way. However I have seen a woman’s calling in obedience to God yet without disrespecting her husband. A man’s disobedience does not necessarily stifle a woman’s ministry. Through it all there is a period of growth and maturity as we learn how to serve the Lord with or without a supportive mate. While my own life is inextricably tied to my husband’s and his support is vital to my ministry, we have to be open too, I think, to the idea that God can and will use women whose husbands are not saved or who are in rebellion against God. It may not be the same open ministry they would enjoy if they had a supportive partner but I think that God’s hands are not tied on behalf of a woman who yearns to be used by God but whose circumstance is anything but perfect. A behind-the-scenes ministry of encouragement can be just as valid as a up-front ministry. Faithfulness is what is required and God’s grace to keep respectful in spite of a man’s opposition. In the end I think we all desire to have a husband working together with us serving God in a one-flesh union.