Jennifer

Hi Cheryl. Of course I don’t think feelings should take precedence over the Word, and I hardly think unmarital sex compares in any way to the feelings of pain that I described. Sex will feel good if done well no matter what; it was built to be pleasurable, so naturally I think there’s a huge difference between doing something good in the wrong time (premarital sex) and doing something that’s blatantly wrong no matter what. “Feeling” that you’re right and feeling pain when you do something that harms you are two separate issues. It would be like trying to live our lives without love; God designed us for love, so this wouldn’t work and our own self-induced misery would be proof of it.