Truthseeker

One of the pastors at my church, when I expressed my disagreement with, and dismay and discouragement at being taught that women have restricted roles, said to me, repeatedly, “Why does that bother you when it is such a tiny part of the whole picture? People are getting SAVED here!” Saved to what, I wondered. I feel like if I happen across those who do get saved I should give them a brochure of things they may want to consider and be alerted to should they remain in the particular church so they don’t become discouraged and frustrated, as I am there. So that they can be introduced to what I believe is biblical truth on these issues. I don’t know how to adequately explain to this pastor and whomever else that it is NOT such a small thing. Women at my church are taught, if they take the women’s class, to submit their wills, skills, abilities and talents to their husbands. When I guestioned the pastor on this, he exclaimed in near exasperation that he had to submit to the board of elders so it wasn’t like the pastors or men didn’t have to submit, also. Perhaps they do, but the group of folk they submit to is far smaller than the group women have to submit to. I just pray that their eyes will be opened and my ability to give a reason for what I believe will improve. In that vein, I welcome reading recommendations that pertain to this topic. Thank you Greg and all others who take the time to write on this blog!