gengwall

sm – The answer by a complimentarian to your first question would be “no”. I think complimentarians would argue that men lead other men to become more like Christ, and men lead women. They would further argue that men have been “designed” to lead and therefore are the natural and God directed leaders of the human race. So, a man uniquely leads a wife by following his God given leadership design (of course, using Christ’s leading and example as a guide and the “iron sharpening iron” from other men as a check and balance).

The problem with all of this reasoning is that it is completely made up; there is no scriptural basis for it.