gengwall

sm – I too have asked that question and similar ones many times. “What does that look like in real, practical, day to day terms”? I get nothing but silence or, at best, vague, fluff answers like you mention. The reality is that this “universal, unilateral male leadership” view is completely impractical and impossible to implement in the real lives of real human beings – that is, not without the marriage suffering all kinds of hurt and neglect, if not outright abuse.