Kay

“Also i am a bit confused why egals think that because Jesus appeared to ‘women’ it is concrete proof that they should lead and run churches. Jesus had many women follow him but none were ever the apostles nor took on any leadership role. MAybe someone can explain the seemingly great importance of this event.”

Mark,
Are you serious? “the seeminly great importance of this event.”???
We are talking about *The Resurrection* after all.
If the Lord had appeared to you first and ask you to go and tell the brethren, would you have said, “No thanks, why not just let Mary.”??
Come now.

I have friends who are missionaries, who have had new believers that in their ignorance of “all things decently and in order,”(I Cor.14:40) walk into the middle of a “formal church” service and stand there loudly asking them questions during the sermon.
So, because they violated that statement of Paul’s, would you consider that man to have committed a sin? If not, why not?
Since you consider women teaching/preaching to men a sin, how would this violation be different?