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“For hupotassoe itself being a military term, it was.”

hupotasso was not a military term exclusive to the military. It was a word that was used in the military like many other, but was not explicitly for such things. I think Vine’s made a mistake in saying that. Arranging oneself under can and does include so many other situations in life. In fact if we would just translate it simply ‘arranging under’ we might escape the many misinterpretations that are going around.

In humility we should all arrange ourselves under one another, honoring God who made us. We should not think of ourselves too highly, but seek to support each other in the things God calls us into, helping each other, carrying each others burdens and seeking to do good for one another…. and so forth.