Nicole

Please call me out if I’m wrong. Please.
This list is written with sadness and grief, not anger.

Compism seems more and more like white-washed misandry.

Think about it:
-Men: ultimately responsible for family. SOME teach they are even responsible for their sins
-Men: glorified ATM. Veiled as “providing”, even if it means an 80 hr. work week and no time w/ the family
-Men: Lust-driven beasts who cannot control themselves. Men become animals that must be tolerated by wives “doing their duty”
-Men: solely responsible for outcome of the kids, even though he gets less time with them than the mother
-Men: Expendable. God forbid a woman/mother joins the military and deploy, but a man is encouraged to. At the risk of his life and being away from his family for 6-15 months. A mother should never work because the children need her so much, but a father MUST.
-Men: spiritual leader of the wife and children. This does not account for the spiritual “dry spells” that are essential to development. What if he is angry at God? Does a man not even warrant a partner to help him, one who can carry him in his weak times? One he doesn’t have to “lead”?

And finally, the worst way men are objectified. I consider this way to be almost worse than p*ornography:

Men: Sperm donors. If a woman’s HIGHEST calling is to be a wife/mother, then (forgive the crudeness) a man becomes a trophy p*nis. A mere thing she convinced to give her a ring and climb in her bed so she can extract his sperm. And he can “provide” for her and her children. Mission Accomplished; she has fulfilled her calling.