Kay

“So, the fulfillment of her calling is dependent on another person’s decision to propose, and their ability to have (successful) children. In other words, her calling is defined by other people, opening the door wide open to sin nature’s manipulative powers.”

Nicole,
Precisely, it’s all man-centered.
“In other words, her calling is defined by other people” – not just “people,” but males in particular, because they claim the “authority” to define.