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“(and when I say grow and cultivate it doesn’t mean she is an inferior who must be turned into what the husband is. I mean she must be sacrificially loved in such a way where she can be who God made her to be. Growing and cultivating is helping her to become who she feels God desires her to be, not who the husband thinks she should be.)”

Nicely said. As well the wife should do the same for the husband. After all it is the man who was in need of an ‘other’, not the woman. It may be that the man is the one who is most in need of an other to reflect who he is and what he is doing so that he can more clearly be aware.