Cheryl Schatz

TL@#45,
You said:

In a emergency whoever is involved may have to make the decision. In things that really only concern one spouse, the spouse most affected should have the highest priority and preferred decision. In major decisions such as moving, buying a car, etc. if the couple cannot agree, THEN NOTHING SHOULD BE DONE UNTIL THEY DO.

I completely agree. Mutuality is God’s way for marriage. Pulling out a trump card that gives one the “right” to force the other person’s will is the world’s way. God’s way alone will work in a person’s heart without planting a seed of bitterness for God alone can change our selfishness into mutual agreement.