Mara

It’s crazy how some men are so obsessed with order, isn’t it pinklight?
And they aren’t even suspicious of their own desire to rule over another when Jesus very specifically told His disciples that they SHOULD NOT be looking for ways to make themselves leaders over others. And there is not footnote here to say that it’s okay for men to call themselves leaders of their wives and that women need to be ruled.

Matthew 23:8 But do not be called Rabbi; for One is your Teacher, and you are all brothers. 9 Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. 10 Do not be called leaders; for One is your Leader, that is, Christ.