Sue

NN,

Our comments crossed. I now see the problem. You are talking about romantic love, a topic which is not addressed in scripture at all. But I have some insight into your character, if you see romance as being about governance and submission. That is not the usual meaning of the word, so evidently you have unique meanings for your words.

Also you write,

““agapeo” ~ ultimate love, “phileo” ~ affections, or “storge” familial love.)”

Perhaps you are not aware that agapeo and phileo are synonyms in the Bible.