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To SM (358)
Quick note: I use ‘eros’ because it was used in ancient Greek as one of the four common words for ‘love’ and because in a more modern sense it was used by Lewis to describe the romantic love between a man and a woman. The word itself is never used in Scripture. But I hope that we can agree that there exists a romantic love between a man and wife which is distinct from other sorts of affection.

But again – to develop an understanding of the concept itself we will first need to find common ground for communcation – so back to (357 http://strivetoenter.com/wim/2010/05/23/authority-vs-submission-biblical-view/comment-page-3/#comment-12223):

Can we agree on this point?

The apostle Paul gave different and distinct instructions to husbands and wives.