Susanna Krizo
2010-05-30
I am really busy today, but here’s one thought:
A marriage can never be 100/0 for it would mean that one person does it all and the other is a freeloader, which is totally unbiblical. What I assume is meant is that the two has become one and we are only talking about one person (hence the 100 from one person and 0 for the other). In this case the husband becomes the one, as lord Blackwell (I think) said a couple hundred years ago, absorbing the wife, and eclipsing her. This is however not true. There are still 2 people in a marriage, wherefore either it is 50/50 or another equation. What is meant by 100/100, a concept popularized in the 70s, is that both do as much. not expecting the other to do his/her part.
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