Susanna Krizo

Mark, you wrote: “But note this verse says nothing about husbands being ‘hypotasso’ to their wives. Serving is not the same as being subject.”
I am sure the first century Roman slave owner thougth that serving was the same as being a subject, and it seem Jesus thought so too.
Matt 20:27-28
And whoever desires to be first among you, let him be your slave– just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

Unless… subjection is not the subject of Eph 5 and serving is in which case both the husband and wife serve and submit allelon (one another)