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“Why will i waste my time explaining how my marriage works on this blog. It is quite clear that we are never going to agree since our ‘foundations’ are completely different. Practical implications flow from theology, if the theology is different, the practical issues will be different. I don’t expect anything i say about my marriage will help facilitate our biblical interpretation of Eph 5.”

We realize that if the theology is different then the practical issues are different. This is why we would like to understand how it is different; how does your theology ‘work out’ in real life for you. Anything that you could share with us would help to clarify for us what you are saying.