Cheryl Schatz

Oops sorry missed this one and then I have to go.

Mark, you said:

who saids a wife can’t make her own decision? is this another false label you are attaching to my theology?

Not at all. I was testing your unilateral submission of your wife to see if you too can submit to your wife’s decision. It would be natural in my example to send the kids to their mom thus doing to her what she did for you. But if you didn’t do that, you would be making the decision for her, taking authority over her makeup and why on earth would you do that?

I think you need to find another example because the one you gave is so easy to be a way to have mutuality and since I think that you must be a good guy deep down in your heart there is no doubt in my mind that you would do the right thing and send the kids to their mom for a decision. So where is an example of submission that is never mutual ever? That is what I am waiting for. Does this make sense?