Cheryl Schatz

My thought is that he wants a forum where there are lots of other comps who can also chime in and help him. Here he thinks he might be on his own without help so he is uncomfortable with that. So perhaps respect is not as important to him as the comfort of having like minded men as a safety zone.

There are some forums that are known for their hatred and bad treatment of those who have opposing views. I am not aware that the particular forum he has suggested is one of those bad ones so it may be a good place for him to feel comfortable. It may also be a good place to get the message out. It is up to you. I can help as I have time but I am unlikely to have a lot of time available until January.