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“the perpetuation of which ends up damaging the gospel of Christ, in Whom we are supposed to be set free.”

Yes, gender hierarchalists not only miss this they never comment on it. In Christ all believers are set free from the power of sin in all its forms of bondage in order to become and mature into the example of Christ Jesus doing the same works that He did. It is not only men that get to mature to be like Jesus and women are to mature to be like Mary. Rather all are to do the same works of the Holy spirit and more as the Holy Spirit guides us.