1 Timothy 212 Two Prohibitions Or One
## 1 Timothy 2:12 prohibitions: Two or One
Date: 2010-12-14
URL: https://mmoutreach.org/wim/2010/12/14/1-timothy-212-two-prohibitions-or-one/

1 Timothy 2:12 prohibitions: Two or One?
In 1 Timothy 2:12 is there one prohibition or two? Complementarians typically say that Paul is prohibiting two things (teaching and exercising authority over a man) while many egalitarians are taking the position that there is only one thing that Paul has prohibited. The prohibition is listed as God is against women assuming authority for themselves to teach men. This view has been brought out by Philip B. Payne in “Man and Woman One in Christ” pg 338.
I do not agree with complementarians that there are two entirely separate prohibitions that are not connected. But I do not agree with Philip Payne either that there is only one prohibition and that this prohibition is to be defined as the forbidding of women to assume authority for themselves to teach men without a properly delegated authority from men.
I will be developing this post in the next few days as I have time, and I may add to it as the discussion continues. The original discussion that promoted this post was from an ongoing discussion here https://mmoutreach.org/wim/2010/08/10/1-timothy-215-going-deeper/ I will be shutting down the comments there as the posts tend to have problems when the comments reach a very high number and/or when the comments reach a certain length. At that time the comments usually just disappear. So while I get this article together, comments are open here to continue the discussion and I will flesh out my own view in the next few days.
Thanks to Kristen for suggesting this topic as one for discussion and I trust that hashing out different views and finding holes and/or support for the different views will be very educational for us all.
Here is what I posted in the last thread, including a link to the essay by Payne about the nature of the word “oude,” which is what engendered this discussion:
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Cheryl, I’m sure you will agree that our English grammar construction and ancient Koine Greek grammar construction may not always be the same. I am relying on the scholarship of Phillip Payne, author of “Man and Woman, One in Christ,” for the statement that the Greek conjunction “oude” ties together the verbs “teach” and “authentein” as one, and that the placement of the object “man” after “authentein” prevents it from being an object of “teach” as well.
Here is an essay by Payne that explains his position:
http://www.pbpayne.com/wp-admin/Payne2008NTS-oude1Tim2_12.pdf
As for the nature of my statements about Eve, they assume that Paul is saying something theologically similar to what he says about Adam in Romans 5:12, that just as all humans sin in Adam, so all women partake of the sin of Eve, and that to say Eve is “saved” is a metaphor saying that womankind is saved through the belief of women in Christ, just as humankind are saved from the sin of Adam through belief in Christ. To refer to Eve in a form of present tense would be metaphorical; Eve as a symbol of all women.
I’m not saying anything against your reading; in fact, I’m inclined to support it. But you do know that people say something similar to what you just said about the Greek grammar having to mean that “teach” and “authentein” are to be read separately: that to use “a woman” with NO contextual indications that he is talking about one specific woman and not “a woman” as a general singular, is too hard to believe. When Paul said, “I know a man who was caught up to the third heaven,” the word “who,” followed by the specific story of what happened, makes it contextually clear that he’s talking about one man. But the “a woman” in 1 Tim 2 has no such contextual indications. Therefore, it’s hard for people to grasp– and when I present my argument that “she” may mean Eve, a lot of them are more willing to accept that, based on Paul’s similar treatment of Adam in Romans 5.
To me, the point is not that we have to get comps to accept one particular egal reading, no matter how hard it is for them to do so. I’m happy if comps will seriously consider ANY possible egal reading. If from there, they move to the “one woman” reading you favor, that’s all well and good. Baby steps, baby steps. New wine only pours into old wineskin in drops, but sometimes Christians need a period of time of receiving drops in their old wineskins before they become willing to replace them with new wineskins to hold ALL the new wine.
A possible interpretation of I Tim 2:15 is that in the first half “she” does refer to Eve, and in the second half “they” refers to all women. My understanding is that people of the OT era were saved by looking forward to Christ, and they did this partly by wanting to be the person who bore the Christ-child. Hence, “she shall be saved in childbearing,” which refers to the bearing and birth of Jesus. Eve appears to have been looking for Jesus when she anounced the birth of her sons. Genesis 4:1 she says “I have gotten a man from the Lord.” (This could also reflect that she didn’t know that her husband had anything to do with the procreation of her child, and it could indicate both.)
If those in the Hebrews 11 faith chapter were saved by trusting in God and looking forward to Jesus, then all women of all time would also be saved the same way–through faith. Those before Christ by looking forward to His coming, and those after his birth, death and resurrection looking back and also looking to God in us via the Holy Spirit as well as looking forward to eternity with Christ. But since faith without works is dead, charity and holiness with sobriety are good descriptions of a genuine faith that brings forth works.
In the case of Eve, because Jesus had not yet come to earth, died, and rose again, the “shall” is necessary. Hebrews 11:13 “These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off, and were persuaded of them, and embraced them and confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth.” In other words, although they had faith, they were not saved until Jesus did His atoning work on the cross and rose from the dead. v 16 testifies of their admittance to Heaven: “But now they desire a better country, that is, an heavenly: wherefore God is not ashamed to be called their God: for he hath prepared for them a city.”
Notice Paul does NOT say that Adam was NOT in the transgression, which some would like to insinuate. Instead, he is saying that being temporarily deceived does not make you permanently damned. If you have genuine, works-producing faith in Jesus.
In Susanna Krizo’s book “When Dogmas Die” she says a certain passage could have 2 meanings, (I don’t have time to look for page & text right now, but I did read that recently, and found that so fascinating I reread it.) since the Hebrews loved using words with double meanings. Although the NT is in Greek, Paul is a Hebrew, of the tribe of Benjamin if I recall correctly, and could well have used a double meaning. If so, the “she” for the deceived Eve, could also refer to the deceived woman.
Could the authority word mean something like “deceptive authority?” The source I have does not give the date the letters to Timothy were written, but it does say the letter to the Ephesians was written about AD 63. (I later googled this and my info says I Tim was written AD 62-64. Not much help. I also found that many modern scholars believe Tim & Titus were not written by Paul at all, that they were written by someone much later. Here’s one reason: “For example, Norman Perrin analyzed the Greek used by the author or authors of the Pastoral Epistles, finding that over 1/3 of their vocabulary is not used anywhere else in the Pauline epistles; more than 1/5 is not used anywhere else in the New Testament, while 2/3 of the non-Pauline vocabulary are used by 2nd century Christian writers.” http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Epistle_to_Timothy. Me, WD, again: If this is so, it would help explain the use of “authentein,” a word that wasn’t used in other writing in Paul’s time.)
If this is a genuine letter from Paul and the woman had heard or read the letter to the Ephesians and took from Ephesian 5:21-33 that more submission is required of husbands than is required of wives (the reverse of what comps claim today) she could also have been teaching that and insisting that her teaching had more legitimacy than the everyone-submit-to-one-another doctrine.
If she was using Ephesians 5 as a reason why women have more authority then men do (similar, but opposite to how comps use the passage today) and using Paul’s letter to back up her statements (like many husbands and pastors do today) that would make sense with the reference to deception in I Timothy 2:14.
Without the use of Paul’s letter (which we today call scripture) as a tool to deceive, because the woman could claim God-given authority from it, verse 14 is illogical. One could miscontrue Paul to be saying it is more important to silence someone because they are prone to be deceived than it is to silence someone who is prone to sinning on purpose. But if the woman is using unsound, twisted reasoning that sounded almost right to her listeners, and especially if she had something of authority like Paul’s own letter to apparently back her up, verse 14 makes perfect sense. Satan, through the serpent, used half truths or even quarter truths to deceive Eve.
Notice how many centuries the church has believed that Ephesians 5 granted husbands authority over their wives, even though the passage never states that, nor has that in the application. If Paul & Timothy had not silenced the woman, our churches could be dealing with the problem of wives taking authority over their husbands and claiming God ordained it to be so.
I realize this is speculation or hypothosis. I welcome comments to either support or discredit. For example, if the letter to the Ephesians was written after I Timothy, instead of before, the whole hypothosis falls apart.
All the different interpretations of 1 Tim 2 only prove it is not a clear cut foundational doctrine to be used to shut up over half of all believers.
Ahh, what happened to my last comment? It should’ve been #11.
Craig,
Prof Catherine Kroeger has written about the possible sexual meaning of authentein.
http://www.godswordtowomen.org/kroeger_ancient_heresies.htm
But what can the term authentein imply in 1 Timothy 2:12? In his Commentary on I Timothy 5.6, St. John? Chrysostom uses autheritia to denote “sexual license.” If the word in this context refers to sexual behavior, it puts a quite different interpretation on the entire passage. For instance, if we were to translate the passage, “I forbid a woman to teach or discuss higher algebra with a man,” we would understand the prohibition to be directed against instruction in mathematics. Suppose it read, “I forbid a woman to teach or talk Japanese with a man.” Then we infer that the injunction applies to the teaching of language. “I forbid a woman to teach or dangle a man from a high wire” would presuppose that the instructor was an aerialist. “I forbid a woman to teach or engage in fertility practices with a man” would imply that the woman should not involve a man in the heretical kind of Christianity which taught licentious behavior as one of its doctrines. Such a female heretic did indeed “teach to fornicate” in the Thyatiran church mentioned in Revelation 2:20 (cf. 2:14f.; Num. 25:3; 31:15f.). Too often we underestimate the seriousness of this problem for the New Testament church. A passage in 2 Peter expresses concern not only for those drawn into this error but also for the illegitimate children which it produced:
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Hi Charis,
Thanks very much for finding that information for me and providing the link. Very interesting.
Craig,
I have some further thoughts about the connection of a sexual authenein with Eve. What if there is truth to the ancient understanding of Church Fathers that the “desire” of Genesis 3:16 has a sexual component ? Personally, this does not bother me a bit! If the beautiful Lucifer seduced Eve and she turned around and seduced Adam, it explains why Adam didn’t put up any resistance! While God commissioned them to “be fruitful and multiply” in the Genesis 1:26-28 dominion commission, there is nothing about the timing or frequency of the act involved, nor is there any mention of sex between them nor pregnancy until post-Fall.
The following are a couple clips (from pages 24-25) of Priscilla Papers ? Vol. 2 3, No. 2 ? Spring 2009 “The Transformation of Deception: Understanding the Portrait of Eve in the Apocalypse of Abraham, Chapter 23” by Megan K. DeFranza
The difficulty, according to Anderson, begins when one moves from the Hebrew to the Greek translation of the Old Testament (the Septuagint). The Greek word for “deceive” also allows the possible translation “to seduce.”35 Moving from Greek to Latin provided no improvement, for it is from the Latin Bible’s (the Vulgate’s) rendition, seducta, that the English finds its own root. Anderson writes:
The Greek and Latin Bibles allow us to construe the verse as an act of sexual seduction. This fateful accident of overlapping semantic fields allowed for the creation of a far more pernicious picture of the deed Eve had wrought. Not only did she consume the forbidden fruit but she was seduced by the Evil Serpent and engendered the demonic figure of Cain.36
Anderson goes on to document the pervasiveness of this version of Eve in the writings of early church fathers, and the religious art and literature of Western Christianity. Still, more was needed than a simple translation problem to allow for the idea of Eve’s seduction to be so easily received by Jews and Christians. Though the Greek word allows one to consider seduction, it is not used by any translation of the Old Testament to indicate sexual seduction.37 It is not until one encounters religious writings of the Hellenistic Era that the word is used within a sexual context.38
What the article points out is the history of seeing Eve as not merely “deceived” but as “seduced” by Satan. The author claims:
It is important to recognize that the Christian Scriptures reject the sexualization of Eve’s sin. Not only this, but biblical authors refuse to place more blame on Eve than on Adam. Second Corinthians 11:2–3 could be used to show that Paul may have been aware of the legend of Eve’s sexual sin, but Paul does not use it to disparage women. Instead, Eve’s sin is used as an exhortation for the whole church, women and men, to remain faithful to their spiritual husband, Jesus Christ.58 Paul also rejects the Jewish tradition that exalts Adam. For Paul, Adam is not the ideal human. This position is claimed by Christ alone (Rom. 5:12–21; 1 Cor. 15:45–49).59 Despite Paul’s rejection of the legend of Eve’s sexual sin, and his evenhandedness in blaming both Adam and Eve for original sin,60 the tendency to blame Eve more than Adam continued to be propagated in Christian and Jewish circles.61
But if one looks at that text in 2 Cor 11:2-3 it looks more like Paul is acknowledging a sexual component of her deception.
One consequence of the Fall which God prophecied over Eve is “your desire shall be for your husband”. This is in the immediate context of two mentions of pregnancy
Unto the woman HE [God]said,
I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception;
in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children;
and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. Gen 3:16
Compare animals’ mating cycle to humans. For many animals, “mating” is seasonal and rare. God told her “I will increase your conception””you desire shall be for your husband”. Doesn’t that imply that she had a higher fertility level? Did her hormones change so that she now had monthly fertility? desire for mating even when she is not fertile? PMS? menopause? (DO animals have PMS?) …and the “he shall rule over you”. Does that sound like the male got a testosterone boost at the Fall?
Here’s wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a fantabulous New Year! Godspeed and may Providence keep you safe!
Thank you Greg and a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you as well. Also to all the blog followers we wish you a very blessed and joyous time with your families.
Prayers for a truly joyful Christmas for everyone from “down under” as well. (Interesting that my anti-spam word was “under”!) 🙂
Merry Christmas from me too, another Aussie “down under”.
So just how many Aussies are regular readers and posters here?
🙂
Hi Craig,
I’m on the Central Coast (NSW), but born and bred in Sydney suburbs. 🙂
Hi TL,
Sorry for still being so slow. I am out of the country right now on a late trip with ministry work that we just finished during the Christmas break. Our ministry partner had a brain aneurysm burst recently so things have been topsy turvy here and not relaxing as I had hoped. She survived, thank God.
There are live quotes here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLe-qF2nptA on the preview for the Trinity DVD. Also on my blog I quote from his book here http://strivetoenter.com/wim/2007/12/21/jesus-unequal-in-prayer/
I hope this helps!
I do intend to get back to this post this week if I can carve out some quiet time to get the post written. I did not even get Christmas off as we worked to get our latest magazine out. There were lots of glitches and reformatting needed which caused a whole lot of extra work when I thought I could rest. I am praying that the Lord will give me times of quietness and rest this year so that I don’t have to live with constant stress which is really hard on the body.
I hope that everyone had a great Christmas and New Year and that you are refreshed and ready for a new year.
thank you all very much. When I get a chance today I’ll need to compose a response for the Sola Panel regarding something I said about Ware. It’s regarding the ninth post on compism and egalism.
http://solapanel.org/article/complementarianism_and_egalitarianism_part_9/
Thanks TL, Elaine, and Cheryl for your helpful thoughts.
Hi Gengwall,
Great to see you back again! When you were last here, I think your daughter’s wedding was approaching. I hope everything went well.
Hi Gengwall,
Besides, Adam didn’t “name” the animals (or Eve) at all, he categorized them.
Just wanted to check what you meant by this. Thanks.
Craig,
I don’t think your approach is without merit, but at the end of the day, this is still a debate, not a negotiation. Someone has to be right. That is why I wrote my “Show Stoppers” series of blog posts. Not coincidentally, which passage do you think was the crowning show stoppers in the gender debate? That’s right – 1 Tim 2.
It is interesting also to me that this comp himself said that he found the “hermeneutical” explanation of the egal position more feasible than the “exegetical” explanation although he didn’t agree with either.
Of course this is the case. The hermeneutical approach is at best a compromise and at worst a down right surrender.
There are very significant dangers in allowing the discussion to venture down this middle of the road path (pardon the mixed metaphor). But your approach to the discussion is a good way to illustrate those dangers. Let’s assume Webb is right, that female deceptiveness (either active or passive), was a cultural bias and only that is being addressed in 1 Tim 2. If that is so, then wouldn’t that mean that Paul was favorable, or even “all in”, to that cultural bias? And if Paul fell victim to a cultual bias that we, at least we egals, now know to be erronious, doesn’t that mean that Paul was providing false guidance to Timothy? And if Paul could lead Timothy astray, then how can we trust anything instruction he has for any of us? And if Paul is untrustworthy, they how can we trust scripture itself, or at least the inspired nature of scripture?
That is the slippery slope the egal slides down if they accept Webb’s hermeneutical approach. And many egals have already slid down that slope. Many believe that Paul was a mysogynistic bastard and therefore don’t give value to anything he says. In fact, many have even been brought to the point of doubting that the Scriptures are God inspired.
And what of the core teaching of 1 Tim 2? Such an approach renders any instruction moot. If it isn’t trans-cultural, then it is worthless to us here and now. Again, the sovereign inspiration of Scripture is called into question, and great confusion reigns. After all, if 1 Tim 2 isn’t trsutworthy, how trustworthy is 1 Tim 3:16: “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;” Webb’s approach leaves us picking and choosing which passages to pay attention to and which ones to discard. We are now playing god, as it is now us who determine what is God breathed and what is not; what is profitable and what is not.
This little rant of mine may be a little melodramatic but I am passionate about truth. I have seen far too many Christians who have created their own personal edited bible. Almost always, it begins with
the simple statement “that doesn’t apply to us today”.
Well put Craig. I have total confidence in you taking that approach. But it is not a good idea for everyone, agreed?
BTW – where is everybody. It’s been me and you, Craig, for like four days.
Cheryl,
I hope your ministry partner is doing fine with recovery and you take it easy as much as you can.
Everyone, who has posted, nice comments 🙂
why did Paul speak of it just once, in a private letter to his “deputy,” rather than in a letter to the whole church? And why didn’t he say anything about it to the church at Rome, where women had a much greater chance of being educated and ready to preach? Why did he spend so much time at the end of Romans praising what women were doing rather than telling them what they weren’t supposed to be doing?
It doesn’t make sense.
I agree Kristen. It doesn’t make sense.
I just found this from CBMW
Merkle, Benjamin L. “Paul’s Arguments from Creation in 1 Corinthians 11:8-9 and 1 Timothy 2:13-14: An Apparent Inconsistency Answered.” Journal of the Evangelical Theological Society 49, no. 3 (2006): 527-48.
Merkle analyzes 1 Cor 11:8-9 and 1 Tim 2:13-14, in which Paul grounds his arguments in the order of creation, and shows that it is not inconsistent to reject the need for women to wear head coverings while still affirming that women are not to teach or have authority over men. The reason for this, Merkle argues, is that in 1 Corinthians 11 Paul only indirectly uses the argument from creation to affirm head coverings for women in order to demonstrate that creation affirms gender and role distinctions between men and women. The result is that in the Corinthian context this distinction was to be upheld through head coverings. In 1 Timothy 2, however, Paul directly uses the argument from creation to demonstrate that women cannot teach or have authority over men, thus making this command transcultural.
I have only seen this summary. I haven’t seen the whole article, but I guess Merkle argues that
1 Cor 11 goes
Adam first, then Eve b) Men have authority over women c) head covering
1 Tim 2 goes
Adam first, then Eve, and Eve deceived b) Men have authority over women, and women shouldn’t teach.
He may argue that b) results directly from a) and so is transcultural, whereas c) is indirect and only a specific application for the time.
Any thoughts?
Sorry I forgot the “a)” before the “Adam first” bits.
Hi TL,
I like your hiking illustration.
“and I can’t practice law” – I reckon you’d make a pretty sharp lawyer Kristen. I wouldn’t want to be on the opposing side 🙂
Sorry to dump the truck on everyone, but I thought some of you may be interested that I received an email from Mark (from Sola Panel) today. Elaine specifically asked if I could post it here. Sorry for the length of it. Mark is the first to admit that he gets a bit wordy.
I said to Mark
Some people have asked me following the closure of the Sola Panel discussion,
“If Mark does email you about the slavery and patriarchy issue could we please see his response?”
I said I would check with you first, so is it ok?
Mark replied
Yes, I think that’s fine to pass it on – as long as people see it as some initial thoughts.
So here are Mark’s initial thoughts
Here’s a few thoughts I had on the spot trying to reflect on why I personally approach the slavery and gender issues somewhat differently. I haven’t tried to argue for anything here, you’ll note, merely identify and state as efficiently as possible – feel free to come back on any bits that you want to talk over, or give your thoughts on to me.
Why I differentiate between household code on slavery and on wives/husbands (and men and women more generally).
The basic reason is that I see more differentiation between the two themes in Scripture than egals tend to see.
In 1 Cor 11 Paul grounds some of his concrete applications on appeals to the structure of creation, to nature, and to a series of relationships involving ‘kephale’. In 1 Tim 2 the order of creation, and the fall, is invoked. In Ephesians 5 marriage is held up as a mystery of Christ and the Church (and again is tracked back to creation in v31). Further, marriage has the situation where it explicitly features in the story in Gen 1-2 (in a very rare editorial commentary), something that Jesus appeals to in Mat 19 and Mark 10 to indicate that Moses’ regulation on divorce is in no way an approval of it.
Putting it together, marriage is basically seen as something given in creation, that is the pattern for the New Creation relationship with Christ, and that is fundamentally good.Slavery is a far more mixed theme. I see no such theological heavyweights attached to it in the household codes. People are to submit to and honour their masters out of reverence to Christ, but nothing substantial theologically is said about the institution of slavery itself in those contexts – nothing in the creation accounts, or the order of creation, or the nature of the new creation, or the fall is ever invoked to ground the institution the way that is done for marriage. More broadly, slavery is used in both positive and negative senses. We are slaves of Christ, and slaves of God, and slaves of righteousness. Christ is spoken of as the doulos of God IIRC. Those all give it a fundamentally positive orientation. But on the other hand, salvation is often spoken of as a redemption from slavery, of a setting people free or giving them their freedom. When Samuel warned Israel about taking a king, the appeal focused on how he would make the people into his slaves. Slavery does not seem to appear (even by inference) in the creation accounts, and when it is regulated, there is no appeal to something more primordial than the concession to indicate what the true purpose of the institution is (something quite unlike marriage and divorce). Finally, in 1 Cor 7:21 Paul (and this is controverted) probably encourages slaves to get their freedom if they can, and in v23 (and this is not controverted) calls on people to not become slaves of men as they were bought with a price. This suggests a stance towards slavery that is fairly clear in the textthat does not see it as an unalloyed good. Paul does not say for people not to get married because they were bought with a price – he indicates that singleness is better given the current crisis, but his take on marriage seems more inherently positive. Similarly Philemon seems to suggest that Paul sees the freeing of Onesimus as a kind of moral imperative – an unusual one, but something of nature.
Taking that together, I see slavery as like most non-marriage forms of human institutions – it is given by God, it is not built into the fabric of either creation or redemption. It is given no inherent dignity or theological weight, but both positive and negative connotations attach to it from how it is used in various contexts. Given that Paul seems to promote freedom from the institution when it is possible, it does suggest a stance that can live with the institution, but that does not see it as an ideal – somewhat like how I think the Bible views divorce.
One of my difficulties with “the” egalitarian approach on this is that the analogy between the two (men-women and slavery) is not taken through properly. The ‘usual’ argument offered is that the Bible was facing a problematically hierarchical culture that couldn’t be taken head-on. And this had three big manifestations – women needing to be subject to men, the existence of slavery, and social institutions being run on the basis of power and authority and submission to that authority. So in the household codes we have a subversion of these institutions – where slavery is being completely reframed (indeed, done away with). But if that’s the case with slavery, then it must also be the case with marriage as well on this argument, if the two are so closely parallel. If the household codes are attacking authority and authority bound institutions, and sees treatment of women and slaves as two examples of the same category of sin, then its treatment of marriage must have the same goal as its treatment of slavery – to do away with it. If that is not the case, then egals, just like comps see a huge difference between the two institutions – they too see one as fundamentally good, and the other as fundamentally problematic. So their argument that they applying the principles of the slavery debate to gender is simply wrong. They aren’t. They’re being fairly highly selective about it – unless they want to start talking about the fundamental goodness of a properly reframed vision of one person owning another.
This is similar to my problem with how the argument cashes out with parents and children. In Ephesians 5 wives are to submit to their husbands as the Church does to Christ in everything. But this is seen to not have any authority implications because husbands aren’t called on to command their wives. This either misses the fact that the same issue is there with slaves and masters in chapter 6 – slaves are to obey masters, but masters aren’t told to command slaves or, if it is argued that here too masters and slaves are being put on the same footing without any authority, it misses the fact that the same thing is true of children and parents. Children are to obey parents, but fathers are not told to exercise authority or command them. The three relationships are clearly some kind of analogy of each other – three relationships where (at least traditionally in society at large) one party had some kind of authority over another. Egalitarianism either extracts marriage out as the relationship that doesn’t fit, extracts marriage and slavery out, or is consistent to the end and puts children and parents on an ‘equal’ footing where there is no authority in that relationship either.
There’s some basic thoughts – both about how I read the texts, and about my problems with the plausibility of egalitarian readings of the texts – on the diffrence and similarity between the two issues, hope that helps.
I replied
I will think a lot more about the content of your email, but my first reaction is the same as when I recently read one of Wayne Grudem’s answers to this question. My question is not dealing with a comparison between “slavery” and “marriage”. It is dealing with the authority aspect. So the comparison is between “slavery” and “patriarchy”.
It is the authority or patriarchal aspect of marriage that is in question, not marriage itself.
Mark replied
Interesting that Grudem and I thought in parallel lines here.
I agree with you that the comparison is slavery and patriarchy, not slavery and marriage. My point is that patriarchy has two main social instititutional structures (at least that we chew around) – marriage, and public roles in church, and then slavery. Marriage was a patriarchal institution in the ancient world slavery was another patriarchal institution. We can’t make a direct comparison from slavery to patriarchy because they are eggs and apples – one is a philosophy (for want of a better word) the other is an institution that (according to egals) probably exists as a result of that philosophy. There is no ‘patriarchy’ as such – there are specific beliefs, and there are specific institutions.
I think my point is trying to be with that – do egalitarians then read the household codes differently when they come to husbands and wives (marriage), masters and slaves (slavery), and fathers and children (children)? “The” argument is that the NT is rescuing marriage from patriarchy in places like Ephesians and trying to deal with a bad situation in places like 1 Peter. Well, if egalitarianism is being consistent, is that how it sees what the NT is doing with slavery – is it trying to rescue that institution? In both cases it is facing a contemporary patriarchal institution on an egalitarian reading – does it respond the same in both cases? Egalitarianism sees marriage of the day, and slavery, as both patriarchal, and seems to just ignore children – doing there what it accuses complementarianism of doing with patriarchy and taking those passages as establishing authority relationships as a good thing.
So I get the pointy end of your concern, I’m not trying to muddy the waters. My point is germane nonetheless, I think. Egalitarianism reads Ephesians 5 and 6 as a word to a patriarchal society to reform patriarchal institutions – marriage, slavery (and, I’ll keep putting out there, children). The argument is that complementarians treat slavery and patriarchical marriage differently, and that their argument that marriage is different from slavery – is built into creation, has big theological themes and the like attached to it – is special pleading, as the same is true of slavery. My point is that if that really is the case, then why don’t egalitarians treat all three relationships in the household codes the same. Their own practice indicates that there is something different about slavery and marriage and children.
There’s two different arguments on view. In one I’m rejecting the egalitarian claim that slavery has as much theological support as the Bible seems to give to marriage (and gender roles in church) and its particular structure. In the other, I’m saying that egals are doing what they accuse comps of doing – they see ancient marriage as patriarchal, and read Ephesians as a godly response to that, yet still see what is happening in those chapters differently somewhere on the marriage-slavery-children spectrum. Their own practice is a sign that comps either aren’t being inconsistent here – to see that the Bible’s response to patriarchal marriage and patriarchal slavery is different, or if it is inconsistent it’s common ground in the debate. Having invoked the idea that Eph 5 needs to be read as response to a prevailing patriarchy, egalitarianism then sees that response as quite different as it moves from marriage, to slavery, to children – and yet all three were patriarchal institutions. There seems to be a very big inconsistency there, as it is doing what it criticises comp for doing, and yet seems to be unaware of it.
The point is subtle, I’ll admit, and I’m probably not doing a good job of explaining it – it crystalised as I wrote the first thing to you yesterday, and I usually explain things better when they’ve sat with me for a bit. Come back again if it still seems like I’m culpably reframing the question away from the one you think is the real one.
Any thoughts before I reply would be appreciated. Thanks.
Just to clarify. I will let him know its from you. I wouldn’t claim it as my own- I’m sure he would know I was cheating 🙂
Gracious woman, you are …. says Youda! 🙂
Hi everyone,
I sent Kristen’s comments @136-140 (amended as requested) to Mark yesterday. I also sent some comments of my own to Mark, which I have posted below. If you see anything where you feel my thinking needs to be a bit refined, or I haven’t understood something as well as I could, please feel free to provide your own thoughts.
So these thoughts are my reply that I sent yesterday to Mark’s comments @135.
Just some thoughts and questions as I am thinking about what you have written. Sorry if some of them seem a bit jumbled.
1.The apples to apples comparison that I would see is
Patriarchal rule in marriage with Patriarchal rule in slavery or
Patriarchal rule over wives with Patriarchal rule over slaves.Sorry to harp on this one but I am just checking that this is the comparison in your mind, so that when you say things like “Marriage…. explicitly features in the story in Gen 1-2,” and “Putting it together, marriage is basically seen as something given in creation, that is the pattern for the New Creation relationship with Christ, and that is fundamentally good.” I think to myself “Yes, but what has that got to do with the question?” Everyone agrees with these things. The question is not about how foundational marriage is, but rather how foundational is patriarchal authority in marriage. That is quite different in my mind and a much more difficult thing to establish. So I am wondering if your main argument is really things like “Patriarchal authority in marriage…… explicitly features in the story in Gen 1-2,” and “Putting it together, Patriarchal authority in marriage is basically seen as something given in creation, that is the pattern for the New Creation relationship with Christ, and that is fundamentally good.”
2.Regarding your problems with the egal approach.
a.I am not sure myself that the household codes are written to rescue or reform institutions (or to endorse them either). They seem to me to be more about encouraging godly living and relationships amongst the members of the household within the culture and situations people find themselves in. If you are a slave this is how you are to live. If you are a master, this is how you are to live. Paul is encouraging mutual submission, mutual yielding to the needs of others, mutual love and servanthood.
b.You said Mark,
“ If the household codes are attacking authority and authority bound institutions, and sees treatment of women and slaves as two examples of the same category of sin, then its treatment of marriage must have the same goal as its treatment of slavery – to do away with it. If that is not the case, then egals, just like comps see a huge difference between the two institutions – they too see one as fundamentally good, and the other as fundamentally problematic.”
I agree that there is a huge difference between marriage and slavery. One is fundamentally good, and the other is fundamentally problematic. But as I said above in 1. , the real comparison is between Patriarchal authority in marriage and Patriarchal authority in slavery. So if the real comparison is valid, marriage itself, doesn’t have to end up the same as slavery. The question is whether the patriarchal authority is a good thing in both, a bad thing in both, or a good thing in one and not the other. If it is decided that patriarchal authority is similar in both, and bad in both, it doesn’t necessarily mean that marriage and slavery need to end up the same way. If you remove patriarchal authority from marriage you end up with marriage. Marriage can exist perfectly well without patriarchal authority (1 Cor 7:1-5, Gen 1 :26-28, Gen 2:23,24.). Can slavery?
c.With regard to parents and children, you said,
“In Ephesians 5 wives are to submit to their husbands as the Church does to Christ in everything. But this is seen to not have any authority implications because husbands aren’t called on to command their wives. This either misses the fact that the same issue is there with slaves and masters in chapter 6 – slaves are to obey masters, but masters aren’t told to command slaves or, if it is argued that here too masters and slaves are being put on the same footing without any authority, it misses the fact that the same thing is true of children and parents. Children are to obey parents, but fathers are not told to exercise authority or command them. The three relationships are clearly some kind of analogy of each other – three relationships where (at least traditionally in society at large) one party had some kind of authority over another. Egalitarianism either extracts marriage out as the relationship that doesn’t fit, extracts marriage and slavery out, or is consistent to the end and puts children and parents on an ‘equal’ footing where there is no authority in that relationship either.”
Are the three relationships really an analogy of each other? Aren’t they just the three relationships that existed in the household with the Patriarch? Do they all have to end up the same after the principles of mutual submission and Christian love are applied? If there are good reasons for some authority to be exercised by parents over children I don’t see why this has to be the same for the other relationships.
The patriarch is not told to exercise authority in these passages in any of his relationships so I certainly don’t think that it can be drawn from these passages that he must do this, or that we must do this today. We must look at the rest of the scriptures to determine if this is so. I think we find from other scriptures and practical wisdom that there are good reasons for parents to exercise authority over children.
d.All these things seem very different to the egal arguments I hear with regard to comparing patriarchal authority over women and slaves.
The argument I hear seems to be more along these lines:
“Historically, up until a couple of hundred years ago, the church read the passages about masters/slaves as universal and normative. A big change occurred when Christians debated the slavery issue. Some Christians argued that a plain reading of some very clear bible texts showed that slavery is approved by God. Others disagreed by examining some of the big themes in scripture and the culture in which it was written. They argued that these passages didn’t teach what had been thought for hundreds of years.As Christians today have looked at the gender debate, many have seen a parallel between the arguments used for maintaining slavery and the arguments used for maintaing the authority of men over women in marriage and in the church.”
The argument I hear is not “slavery is in the household codes, and everything in the household codes must be the same as each other, so marriage must be the same”.
It is “slavery is in the household codes. It was always assumed to be normative. Perhaps we can’t just assume Patriarchal authority in marriage (and over children) is normative. We have to study the whole sweep of the scriptures to determine if what is said is normative, not just assume it is. We need to have some good reasons for what we believe.This was the error made by those who opposed the abolition of slavery. Patriarchal authority in marriage has to be studied throughout the bible to determine if it is normative, not just assume it is or isn’t because it is in the household codes”.
Thanks for considering these things Mark, from your Christian brother,
Craig.
Craig,
I think your arguments are terrific, I agree with all of them and I wouldn’t change a thing.
When is Cheryl returning. I really miss her! 🙁
Same for me, and I am sure for all of us. I do hope she has been able to get some much needed rest and refreshment from the Lord.
No word from Mark yet.
Craig, since we last wrote to one another, I learned some things that relate directly to our Sola Panel discussions and the issue of slavery.
I recently found on CBE (Christians for Biblical Equality), a link to this 34-page essay by egalitarian leader Kevin Giles. It was written in response to a complementarian conference he attended in Melbourne, Australia in October 2010. As I read this over, it became increasingly clear to me that the attitudes of the Sola Panel contributors (that egalitarians were all “liberals” who had abandoned a high view of Scripture because we just didn’t want to obey the plain sense of the Bible with regards to women’s roles) were a direct result of that conference.
Kevin Giles addresses directly the attitude that complementarians have some sort of moral high ground with regards to reading the Bible, which egalitarians have supposedly abandoned. I found his words very heartening.
If the above link doesn’t enable you to read the document, please click on this link to the CBE artile and then on the words “response to the conference” on the fourth line down.
http://blog.cbeinternational.org/2011/01/unity-in-difference/
Of particular interest are his conclusions on pages 32-34. He says that it is human nature to cling to power and to justify the use of power, and that the Bible is the greatest source of justification there is; therefore, the opposition and vilification we receive as egalitarians is a direct result of our challenge to established male power in the church and home for evangelical Christians. He also noted something that I was unaware of: apparently Australian evangelicals are largely unaware of the track record of evangelicals in other countries using the Bible to cling to racial power. Mark’s apparent simplicity with regards to how slavery and male-female relations tie together, may be directly related to this unawareness that complementarians themselves are continuing in a grand tradition of Christian people in power clinging to power and using the Bible for justification. I’m going to post a couple of links to old pro-slavery writings that use the same arguments complementarians now use, to justify slave-holding as being the white man’s divine right.
Sorry, the first source I meant to link didn’t get linked. Here it is:
The whole thing is interesting, but the arguments I summarized mostly appear after page 45.
I just got an email from Mark B. I will put material from my email to him in quotation marks, and Mark’s thoughts and reflections in normal font. Sorry again for the length.
Hi Craig,
Sorry this has taken a bit longer to get around to – we had a bit more illness towards the end of last week.
I think the best way for me to interact with what’s here, is to add my own thoughts and reflections after sections I want to comment on.
Hi Mark,
Thanks for your reply.
I passed on the meat of your emails (not the personal stuff) to a spot where Kristen hangs out. Kristen gave quite a thoughtful response so I asked her if I could share it with you. She was fine with that.
Heh, if I’d known this was what you meant by sharing it further I probably would have written something quite different. It wasn’t meant to be an argument why anyone else (certainly not an egal) should do this. It was a reflection on why I do. And I’m not an idealist about these things – people hold the views they do for good, bad and indifferent reasons, not simply because they have tight logical arguments. So if you ask me why I think something you’ll often get a different answer than if you ask me why I think something is right – those two aren’t quite the same thing. But that’s fine, spilt milk and all that.
Following Kristen’s comments to me regarding your emails, I have written some of my own comments.
From Kristen
Ok, I’m going to try to throw out a few thoughts here, off the top of my head. I’m not sure how clear they will be.?I think Mark’s view of the historical context oversimplifies. He says patriarchy is a “philosophy” (I assume he means a “system”) and patriarchal marriage, slavery and the parent-child relationship were all patriarchal in nature. Then he says that egalitarians believe Paul’s purpose was to subvert the practices of patriarchal marriage and slavery from within– but that in saying this, we ignore the parent-child relationship, which is also authority-based.?In order to say this, Mark appears to be defining “patriarchal” as meaning “based on the authority of one person over another.” But that’s not what “patriarchy” means– particularly as it was expressed in the 1st-century Roman Empire. “Patriarchy” in the Roman Empire meant a system of “households” which were different from our modern nuclear families. A “household” was an economic unit ruled by a patriarch– the “pater familias” who was the ruler of his wife, grown children, their children, and his slaves. It is a modern misconception to think that the only “children” who were being addressed in Ephesians 5 were minors.??Mark appears, then to be switching the real meaning of patriarchy with “relationships containing authority.” As you already pointed out, Craig, he starts with an apples-and-oranges comparison of “marriage” with “slavery,” where the true comparison would either be “marriage” with “economic relationships where one person works for another” OR “patriarchal rule in marriage” with “master-rule in slavery.” He then wants to say that the Bible’s approach to patriarchal marriage and patriarchal slavery was different– that there is evidence that slavery was not meant to be a permanent thing, while marriage (and therefore patriarchal marriage) was intended to be permanent. And the reason he appears to want to give for this is that parental authority over children is naturally a permanent thing. But he’s slipping in “marriage equals patriarchal marriage” as an unchallenged assumption.
I think Kristen is right in that I don’t find this clear – not surprising as I doubt I am being clear either. My point is that both the Jewish (missed by Kristen when she classifies my position as a simplification) and the Roman societies had fathers in charge of children (certainly including adult dependents as she says), husbands in charge of wives, and owners (predominantly but not exclusively male) in charge of slaves. And they didn’t see one of those as patriarchy and the other two as not patriarchy. All three were fairly naturally paired together – Paul’s household codes aren’t all that revolutionary by putting those three relationships side by side.
And I’m not sure I’m slipping in ‘marriage equals patriarchal marriage’ as an unchallenged assumption. My point was, I thought, that that is what marriage was for both Paul’s Jewish and Gentile readers. They didn’t have an abstract view of marriage and then go, ‘and of the ways marriage could be structured, we opt for patriarchal’ – they had one view of marriage: patriarchal. My statement has to do with what is being understood by the society and so what the words Paul writes are going to mean to that audience.
But let’s do an apples-to-apples comparison instead of an apples-to-oranges.?Paul is talking about three basic relationships: the relationship where two humans unite to produce children, the relationship where two or more humans unite to accomplish an economic goal, and the relationship where one or two adults and one or more children unite to accomplish the goal of bringing the child to adulthood. Patriarchy approached each of these relationships with the idea that all the power was to be concentrated in the hands of one central human male, with other human males (his adult sons) given some delegated power, and everyone else (women, slaves and minor children) having no power at all.?Given that idea, one can say without any inconsistency at all that Paul’s goal was to teach a new way of approaching ALL THREE of these relationships such that power was shared. The human males in whose hands the power was concentrated, were told to act like Christ in laying down their lives for their wives, treating their slaves with humility, and not exasperating their children. The ones without power were told to respond by yielding (for wives) and obeying (for slaves and children). By making this differentiation, Paul is acknowledging the economic nature of the slave relationship (that in an economic production unit, someone has to be in charge), and also the economic nature of the father-child relationship where the children are adult males working for the “company” (which was the household). But the nature of the wife relationship is not economic, but one of intimacy and oneness– and Paul seeks to restore the oneness God intended in marriage, partly through the use of that word “submit” (”yield”) instead of “obey.
For the relationship of parent to minor child, Paul also exhorts obedience– in this case because the child is not ready for adult responsibilities. But the fathers are to lay down power in that relationship as well.
I think the ‘lay down power’ here is pretty tendentious. Almost any complementarian would say something like all this, but would say that what is going on is the reshaping of authority to be used as an exercise of service to those under authority rather than as a lording over them. My question here is – does Jesus model the kind of way of using authority that Kristen is speaking about here? Does he use it with humility? does he lay down his life, does he not exasperate us? And would she (and you) be happy with describing that as Jesus ‘laying down power’ in his relationship with us?
I certainly wouldn’t be happy to use such language about the one I call Lord. And yet he is the model, and I don’t see it as a model of laying down power, but of using it in a servant way.
And again, this is the kind of ‘this but that’ reading that is just so hard to pin down. Is Paul writing in such a way that indicates that these relationships have authority or not? Kristen seems to be suggesting ‘yes’ – but in such a way that over time we’d move beyond the letter of what Paul has said to the spirit of it and move to more egalitarian relationships. You seem to be saying ‘no’ – there’s nothing in these texts, we need to look elsewhere.
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What Paul is NOT doing is saying that any and all authority in relationships is bad. But he IS saying that in authority relationships, those in power are to look on those under their power as of full, equal value and dignity. This would tend, over time, to subvert patriarchy– where power was concentrated in the hands of a male– in favor of more balanced-power relationships, such as our current employer-employee relationships, or modern parent-child relationships where the state views the children as having fundamental rights which the parents cannot violate with impunity.
Agree with the first two sentences. Partly agree with the rest, but not so sure it is as simple as Kristen thinks. If we lost the wealth that modern society can produce and went back to the kind of society where it is big grind to produce enough food to feed people and there is little discretionary capacity in society for people not to be involved in food production (and so not much of a police force or bureacracy, let alone any social welfare or universal education) then I think we’d return to more authoratarian society strucutres fairly quickly, even with a view of universal human dignity. I think we have little grasp how much what we take for granted is actually the conditions of a society where everyone is rich. Even our poor people have a kind of wealth unimaginable in earlier eras.
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Given this context, then, the egalitarian can easily agree with Mark that the Bible– including this Eph. 5 passage– treats marriage differently than the other two relationships. But “marriage” does not have to mean “marriage in which patriarchy remains intact” any more than “an economic relationship where one person works for another” has to mean “slavery.” Marriage is an intimate relationship between two people, in which (in Paul’s time) all the power was concentrated in the hands of the male. Take power out of the hands of the male and share half of it with the female– and you have not changed the fundamental nature of marriage itself; you have only changed its patriarchal structure. It is MARRIAGE, not PATRIARCHAL marriage, which the Bible treats as a special, God-given relationship from the beginning of the creation of humanity. It is not inconsistent for Paul to seek to remove the male-power structure from this relationship at the same time he seeks to remove the male-power structure from slavery and parenthood (which I think he does), while at the same time treating marriage as something unique among all other relationships.
I think this might be begging the question – no insult intended there, it’s Kristen’s off the top of the head thoughts to my off the top of the head thoughts.
My argument isn’t that Paul can’t change the relationships. It’s that I find the egaltarian case implausible as a description of how it would be received in the patriarchal society of the day. The NT leaves slavery and children in place (but does that while somehow also saying that slavery is unequivocally wrong), but Ephesians 5 is radically redrawing the readers’ view of the nature of marriage – a shift as big for its day as the idea of Same Sex Marriage is for the modern era, and it does this while putting the three relationships next to each other and heading them up with ‘submit to one another’. All three are patriarchal, two are kept, one is transformed head-on, but all three are ‘submit to one another in Christ’. I can see how a modern can read it that way. But put yourself into the shoes of someone who does not even have the concept of egalitarianism in their head and the only way they think is patriarchal. Is it plausible that they’d ‘hear’ it this way? They don’t have a view of ‘marriage’, they only have a view of ‘patriarchal marriage’ – will they hear this text this way?
So, given the above– what is it about the parent-child relationship that makes it still necessary for minor children to obey their parents? The fact is that in this relationship, the necessity for obedience still exists, due to the nature of minor children. It is not inconsistent for egalitarians to acknowledge this as a fact, while also acknowledging that the partriarchal system in which adult children were still supposed to obey the pater familias, was unnecessary, has now passed away and there is no need to go back to it. Similarly, the need still exists in an economic relationship for the worker to obey the business owner– but the old structure that gave the owner absolute power over the life and personhood of the worker, was unnecessary, has now passed away, and there is no need to go back to it. In marriage, the power structure that gave the male the power over the female is unnecessary, has passed away– and yet the church still clings to it and tries in every way to restore it. That is what the egalitarian objects to– not legitimate use of authority in necessary ways acknowledged by society, but illegitimate use of ancient forms of power that are now viewed as unjust by society– the perpetuation of which ends up damaging the gospel of Christ, in Whom we are supposed to be set free.
From Craig
Thanks for helping me think through the issues. I don’t find it easy but I think it is beneficial. My name may be “Swift” but it does take me a fair while to process the information 🙂
Just some thoughts and questions as I am thinking about what you have written. Sorry if some of them seem a bit jumbled.
1.The apples to apples comparison that I would see is
Patriarchal rule in marriage with Patriarchal rule in slavery or
Patriarchal rule over wives with Patriarchal rule over slaves.
Sorry to harp on this one but I am just checking that this is the comparison in your mind, so that when you say things like “Marriage…. explicitly features in the story in Gen 1-2,” and “Putting it together, marriage is basically seen as something given in creation, that is the pattern for the New Creation relationship with Christ, and that is fundamentally good.” I think to myself “Yes, but what has that got to do with the question?” Everyone agrees with these things. The question is not about how foundational marriage is, but rather how foundational is patriarchal authority in marriage. That is quite different in my mind and a much more difficult thing to establish. So I am wondering if your main argument is really things like “Patriarchal authority in marriage…… explicitly features in the story in Gen 1-2,” and “Putting it together, Patriarchal authority in marriage is basically seen as something given in creation, that is the pattern for the New Creation relationship with Christ, and that is fundamentally good.”
Well, there’s a bunch of things going on:
1. The Bible indicates that marriage is built into Creation and New Creation, and is good.
2. The Bible doesn’t do that for slavery.
3. The society of the day had a unanimous strong view about both marriage and slavery that was patriarchal, and Jewish exegesis of the Bible understood the texts patriarchally.
4. The Bible does teach a structure of marriage, either patriarchal or egalitarian.
My argument was that the Bible does treat marriage and slavery as different – one is built in and fundamentally good, one is not built in and is not an unequivocal good. That’s one argument.
The second argument is that the audience doesn’t have a view of marriage (big abstract category) and then has opted for a specific version – patriarchal. They hold to ‘marriage’ which simply is what we call ‘patriarchal marriage’. Many of them wouldn’t even recognise an egalitarian marriage as marriage at all (in much the same way that many of us wouldn’t recognise same sex marriage as marriage at all), while others might but see it as very wrong (likewise us for same sex marriage). For Paul to attack patriarchal marriage and reform its structure to bring out the biblical vision of an egalitarian marriage is, for the readers, to attack ‘marriage’ altogether and to put forward something new that is called ‘marriage’. What is on view is a radical, truly radical, restructuring of the institution from the point of view of the original readers.
That is, on the egalitarian view, Paul is trying to address three problematic relationships his readers are faced with in a patriarchal society – slavery, marriage, children. What he’s doing is addressing those institutions, he’s not offering ethical teaching in a vaccuum. And those institutions, as they actually were in reality, were patriarchal, and the people wouldn’t have had a view like ‘there’s the true essence of marriage and then there’s the way you structure it, and we go for patriarchal’ so that Paul could easily drop the patriarchal structure and bring out the true egalitarian essence of the institution any more than people a generation ago would have found same sex marriage at all plausible – a bringing out of the essential nature of marriage and dropping the heterosexual structure for it. And in doing that addressing the actual patriarchal institutions he’s faced with, Paul’s responses are quite different even though he offers the same basic reasons for all three. That works for a modern reader, but the more I try and put myself back into the original context the less plausible it becomes. The argument only works if you already have a concept of egalitarianism in your head as a live option and then read the texts to work out whether they teach egal or comp. It doesn’t work if Paul is trying to create the concept of egalitarianism in a culture (even Jewish culture that has the Scriptures) that has no concept at all of such things. Hopefully that’ll go some way to your 2a and 2b below.
2.Regarding your problems with the egal approach.
a.I am not sure myself that the household codes are written to rescue or reform institutions (or to endorse them either). They seem to me to be more about encouraging godly living and relationships amongst the members of the household within the culture and situations people find themselves in. If you are a slave this is how you are to live. If you are a master, this is how you are to live. Paul is encouraging mutual submission, mutual yielding to the needs of others, mutual love and servanthood.
b.You said Mark,
“ If the household codes are attacking authority and authority bound institutions, and sees treatment of women and slaves as two examples of the same category of sin, then its treatment of marriage must have the same goal as its treatment of slavery – to do away with it. If that is not the case, then egals, just like comps see a huge difference between the two institutions – they too see one as fundamentally good, and the other as fundamentally problematic.”
I agree that there is a huge difference between marriage and slavery. One is fundamentally good, and the other is fundamentally problematic. But as I said above in 1. , the real comparison is between Patriarchal authority in marriage and Patriarchal authority in slavery. So if the real comparison is valid, marriage itself, doesn’t have to end up the same as slavery. The question is whether the patriarchal authority is a good thing in both, a bad thing in both, or a good thing in one and not the other. If it is decided that patriarchal authority is similar in both, and bad in both, it doesn’t necessarily mean that marriage and slavery need to end up the same way. If you remove patriarchal authority from marriage you end up with marriage. Marriage can exist perfectly well without patriarchal authority (1 Cor 7:1-5, Gen 1 :26-28, Gen 2:23,24.). Can slavery?
c.With regard to parents and children, you said,
“In Ephesians 5 wives are to submit to their husbands as the Church does to Christ in everything. But this is seen to not have any authority implications because husbands aren’t called on to command their wives. This either misses the fact that the same issue is there with slaves and masters in chapter 6 – slaves are to obey masters, but masters aren’t told to command slaves or, if it is argued that here too masters and slaves are being put on the same footing without any authority, it misses the fact that the same thing is true of children and parents. Children are to obey parents, but fathers are not told to exercise authority or command them. The three relationships are clearly some kind of analogy of each other – three relationships where (at least traditionally in society at large) one party had some kind of authority over another. Egalitarianism either extracts marriage out as the relationship that doesn’t fit, extracts marriage and slavery out, or is consistent to the end and puts children and parents on an ‘equal’ footing where there is no authority in that relationship either.”
Are the three relationships really an analogy of each other? Aren’t they just the three relationships that existed in the household with the Patriarch? Do they all have to end up the same after the principles of mutual submission and Christian love are applied? If there are good reasons for some authority to be exercised by parents over children I don’t see why this has to be the same for the other relationships.
The patriarch is not told to exercise authority in these passages in any of his relationships so I certainly don’t think that it can be drawn from these passages that he must do this, or that we must do this today. We must look at the rest of the scriptures to determine if this is so. I think we find from other scriptures and practical wisdom that there are good reasons for parents to exercise authority over children.
My point here has to do with the argument that Paul has no authority in view because it is not mentioned explicitly. And I think the argument is sound – if that’s a good principle of Biblical interpretation, then it must apply to all three relationships. It can’t just apply to one. I agree with you that we need to look more widely than just the words to the husband in the passage.
For me, 5:22 and 5:24 can’t be reconciled to an egalitarian understanding. Wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, and as the church submits to Christ in everything so wives are to their husbands. Are there two kinds of submission that we offer to the Lord? One where he does not have authority, and one where he does? And if so, how do we distinguish between them? And if not, how can we submit to someone as to the Lord, and yet that not indicate authority? How would such words have been understood by an overwhelming patriarchal society with no pre-existent concept of egalitarianism?
Similarly the Petrine household code seems incompatible with an egalitarian reading of Eph 5 (as even Suzanne seemed to acknowledge on the threads, which I found interesting). In 1 Peter 2:13 Peter calls on Christians to submit to every human institution (and, interestingly in v16 this is part of what it means to be act as free men – the submission we offer is not slavish, but that of those who are free). He then tells slaves to submit to masters in v18. The same language, with a ‘in the same way’ is given to wives. He doesn’t tell them to only do this to unbelieving husbands (which one might expect if it really was just unbelieving husbands that was in view as many egalitarian readings suggest) and his invoking of Sarah calling Abraham lord and obeying him, as well as the holy women of former times who hoped in God, really cuts against that grain as Abraham and Sarah are OT paradigms of faith. In 1 Peter 2 and 3 husbands aren’t told to exercise authority either, but if Sarah and the holy women submitting to their husbands is the example, and it’s ‘in the same way’ as slaves to their masters, then it’s hard to see how it is not being assumed.
d.All these things seem very different to the egal arguments I hear with regard to comparing patriarchal authority over women and slaves.
The argument I hear seems to be more along these lines:
“Historically, up until a couple of hundred years ago, the church read the passages about masters/slaves as universal and normative. A big change occurred when Christians debated the slavery issue. Some Christians argued that a plain reading of some very clear bible texts showed that slavery is approved by God. Others disagreed by examining some of the big themes in scripture and the culture in which it was written. They argued that these passages didn’t teach what had been thought for hundreds of years.
As Christians today have looked at the gender debate, many have seen a parallel between the arguments used for maintaining slavery and the arguments used for maintaing the authority of men over women in marriage and in the church.”
The argument I hear is not “slavery is in the household codes, and everything in the household codes must be the same as each other, so marriage must be the same”.
It is “slavery is in the household codes. It was always assumed to be normative. Perhaps we can’t just assume Patriarchal authority in marriage (and over children) is normative. We have to study the whole sweep of the scriptures to determine if what is said is normative, not just assume it is. We need to have some good reasons for what we believe.This was the error made by those who opposed the abolition of slavery. Patriarchal authority in marriage has to be studied throughout the bible to determine if it is normative, not just assume it is or isn’t because it is in the household codes”.
Well, the first bit of the argument is wrong, I think. Calvin and Luther don’t try and reintroduce slavery into the 16th Century, for example, which one would expect them to do if Christians have always considered slavery to be normative. The early church did not campaign to keep slavery going, or hold it up as something universally and unqualifiedly good. So it’s a misperception about how the Church understood slavery – similar to the argument that all Christians believed that the Bible taught a flat world before Galileo. There are a number of early church fathers who believed (like many philosophers at that time) in a round world.
So the issues aren’t parallel. The mainstream tradition did not think that slavery was obligatory (i.e. normative) – that God wanted slaves in all times and places. Usually people argued (at most) that it was possible under certain conditions. And there had been different views on the shape of the world. But no-one believed that the passages in question taught an egalitarian view of marriage. The people arguing for slavery didn’t just peg their case on the household codes either – they drew on a wide range of texts as well for their position, so that part of the argument is wrong as well.
Further, there is a disanalogy in that those contesting slavery and arguing for a round world were going against the grain of the society of the day, while those supporting the received position were reflecting the consensus of their society. In the current debate that shoe is on the other foot – egalitarianism is the view that seems reasonable and obvious to our unbelieving contemporaries.
I agree with the basic point – have to show from the Bible as a whole, and not just assume. But I think the other side has to be in play as well. To say that the whole church got it wrong for two thousand years about something so ethically important is a big claim. To say that at a time when the view in question simply reflects the moral intuition of our own society is an orange light. The teaching of scripture has to be really, really, really clear for that to be the case. And egal reasoning on these things is hardly ‘clear’, even if it is true, it is more like ‘torturous’ or ‘subtle’ as a description. That can’t decide matters, but it needs to be given some significant weight.
Thanks for considering these things Mark, from your Christian brother,
Craig.
You’re welcome Craig, glad you’re putting so much thought into things. Sorry I’m a bit distracted at the moment.
in Christ,
Mark
Craig– one example is the “divine right of kings.”
Thanks Kristen for #170.
Sorry Dave, I meant thanks for #175.
Hmmmm…. perhaps it is. I will check it out and get back to you.
It is nice to visit this lovely forum again!
Craig,
You might find useful/interesting some of Mark’s recent comments on the Sola Panel discussion “Choosing the hill to die on.”
Westcott-Hort/Netle-Aland actually have Christos instead of Theo. That’s weird. Scripture4all.org has Theo. They are using the Scrivener 1894 Textus Receptus edition. The said:
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Yeah, Craig I was just observing your reasoning and questioning. It’s good 🙂
So if this is the case…perhaps someone would like to clarify why Paul exhorted the Ephesians to submit to one another out of fear of Christ!
Thanks Pinklight @194.
Hey Dave. Good question @196 🙂 I was hoping you would have the answer and I could sit back and enjoy!
Sorry Dave- just to add to your questions. How can Jesus be Lord over each of us individually and not be Lord of us collectively as the church?
Hey Dave. Good question @196 I was hoping you would have the answer and I could sit back and enjoy!
lol me too! 🙂
Anyway– I’m sick today, so that’s all I’ve got. I’m hoping to get a chance to really focus on Mark’s comments this weekend.
Hi Kristen,
Sorry to hear you are not well. I hope you are feeling better soon.
I wasn’t going to post this just yet until we finished more of the subject at hand, but just in case you do get a chance to focus on Mark’s comments this weekend, I thought you (and others) might be interested in his latest email that arrived today. I sent him some thoughts along the lines of #189, comparing serving one another, and submitting to one another, and this is his reply. Sorry again for the length. I have left out my comments and some of Marks for the sake of brevity, but I think you will be able to follow his main arguments.
Hi Craig,
A couple of thoughts. My impression is that doulew had a semantic range that included ideas that did not involve being a slave or a servant (in the social status sense). So at that level the NT’s use of the word is not doing something outside the semantic range the word had. Nonchristians could speak this way as well. So I agree that authority did not have to be on the radar in the NT, but that’s because it didn’t have to be on the radar with this word.
However, doulew and its linguistic relations certainly had strong associations with slavery and servility. The choice of this word is saying more than ‘voluntarily giving ourselves to meet the needs of others’ – it is casting the flavour of being a slave towards others in our mutual relations. Being a slave had more connotations than just being in an authority relationship, so such a flavour could apply even to someone who had authority. I doubt that non-christians would feel comfortable with putting so much weight on this wordgroup. I think that’s important for the debate, for it means that the associations are not lost, but it’s not directly related to your point above (it more affects your approach to ‘submit’). The previous paragraph is though, I think.
I think egals have reconstructed ‘submit’ to mean something like ‘voluntarily yielding our own desires to put others first and meet their needs’. You won’t find that meaning in any greek lexicon I know of (not that I’m a linguistic guru) that covers extra-biblical examples. It is a meaning that simply doesn’t work in many contexts in the NT. Submit to the authorities = voluntarily yield your desires to put them first and meet their needs? Submit to God means I meet his needs?
I don’t think submission is in Phil 2. I think that is a crux passage for this debate, but I think you only see submission there once you’ve decided that submission means putting others before yourself and meeting their needs. The word isn’t there (from what I can see), and in this instance I think the concept isn’t either.
While the word ‘serve’ can (and did) have non-authority usages, it is harder to see how that can be done with the ‘submission’ words without changing their base meaning in a way that then doesn’t make sense in their non-biblical usage. ‘Obeying your instructions’ ‘Bowing the knee’ etc becomes ‘put you first and meet your needs’. That’s what Peter is telling slaves to do in 1 Peter 2:18? There’s no indications of submitting to authority there? It’s putting the master first and meeting his needs? It’s what he is saying in 2:13-15 to Christians generally with regards human rulers of different kinds? It’s what Paul is saying in Roman 13:1ff on the same topic?
Or do we now have two “submits” in the NT? In some places it means what it normally meant and its meaning hasn’t been transformed by Christ—submit to masters, rulers, God means what any contemporary would immediately recognise. But other places, oh let’s see, ah, husbands, there it means something different. There is some connection being made between 1 Peter 2:18 and 3:1, so I think the ‘submit’ needs to be the same in the two instances—either it has no authority connotations for slaves, or it does have authority connotations for wives.
And if we have to accept that ‘serve’ and ‘submit’ must both have been transformed by Christ, because both were part of being a slave, but were put to different usages in the NT, why leave out ‘obey’? Slaves had to obey their masters, but obedience is a general Christian virtue, and slaves need to obey their masters in Eph 6, and Sarah obeyed Abraham in 1 Peter 3 (and surely the case could be made that in the record we have in Genesis it is hard to see Sarah’s relationship with Abraham being her doing what he tells her to do – so the example in Genesis should shape how we understand it in the NT). If it is inconsistent to say ‘serve and not submit’ then surely it is to say ‘serve and submit but not obey’ are transformed.
The irony I find, is that you are asking for the very thing that egalitarianism insists cannot happen with regards to ‘equality’. Complementarians argue that the word ‘equality’ must be compatible with notions of permanent submission (and possibly even subjection on some accounts). They don’t (in my view) argue this because they’ve made a reconstruction that the word has been transformed this way and then look to see if it fits. They look at the texts and go, “Based on normal meanings of the words, the texts seem to be saying that you can be equal to someone you always have to submit to”. And then fumble around trying to give some kind of account of that, with varying degrees of success. That ‘varying degrees of success’ to my mind indicates that what we have, basically, are people getting their views out of the text and finding it hard to work out a framework for it—similar to how the Nicenes struggled to articulate orthodoxy whereas Arianism was able to put forward its view clearly from the beginning, it was a priori. Egalitarians say, “No the word just can’t mean that, it makes it meaningless”. And yet, their argument hinges on a transformation of the meaning of at least two word groups (at least on your take) that isn’t, from what I can see, ever explicitly taught in the NT (so we are taught to have a different view of what submit and serve means) but only ever assumed even if the egalitarian account is right. The transformation of their meaning happened ‘off camera” and in the text we have the signs the change occurred.
Let’s do what you suggest, and put your view of submission into the relevant verses:
Wives put your husbands first and meet their needs as to the Lord.
But as the Church puts Christ first and meets his needs in everything so also the wives ought to their husbands in everything.
My thoughts about that as an exegetical solution:
1) It still raises the question I asked you earlier in this context. There is a parallel here between husbands and the Lord. If the submission to Christ that the Church offers is without authority then it is for wives to husbands. And so my question to you is – do we sometimes submit to Christ in an authority-kinda-way but we don’t other times in the NT? And if so, how do we work out which submit is on view in which text? Or do we never submit to Christ in an authority-kinda-way, submission to Christ, God, ruling authorities et al just does not have any authority connotations in the NT? And if that’s the case, how would you go about indicating that we should (pick a word that we used to use ‘submit’ for to do the work) to God’s authority from the NT? The issue for me is not what it could mean, but what it does given the parallels.
2) If ‘submit’ here means ‘put others first and meet their needs’ or it means something like ‘serve’ then I cannot see any substantial difference between Paul’s instructions to wives and to husbands. The ‘submission’ wives offer to husbands is basically the same as the ‘love’ husbands offer to them. Different words are used to indicate the same basic reality. If not, what is asymmetrical at this point? What should wives be doing that is not a requirement for husbands in this context and what is a requirement for husbands that is not for wives in this context?
There’s a whole raft of problems I see from that:
a. The counsel Paul is giving is as radical a turn for wives as it is for husbands, if not more so—he’s at least used ‘love’ in a way that fitted its normal semantic range. And yet he grounds the teaching to husbands with expansive content with reference to Christ’s example. But offers nothing concrete for the wives as to what this new submission looks like in the church’s relationship with Christ. And surely something like that is called for? The Church submits to Christ in everything in a way that has no authority connotations? This is revolutionary! What does that mean? What does it look like? No idea, we need space to talk about what love looks like—something that is dealt with at length in the NT already and involves no fundamental transformation of its basic meaning.
b. What does it add to the exhortation to the wives to say that they are to do it like the Church does it to Christ? If what is on view is mutual submission of the kind that we offer to one another, why bring Christ in at all at this point as the one to whom we submit? Usually it is Christ’s example that is held up, not the Church’s (!!! For how rare this is). What is gained by this unusual step? Why not appeal to Christ’s example of submission to the Church in line with an egalitarian reading of Phil 2, rather than the Church’s imperfect example of submission to Christ just as he does with the husbands? It wouldn’t affect the material to the husbands on this reading (from what I can see)—the husband section can still be a type of Christ and the Church. Or why not just drop Christ out altogether and go with ‘as the Church submits to one another’ or the like?
c. Again, does this mean that the Church in its relationship with Christ is in a mutual-submission relationship, with no authority on view in the relationship? Or does it mean that some aspects/dimensions/names for the Church’s relationship don’t have authority and other ones do? Does Christ, inasmuch as he is the Church’s groom, not have authority, but inasmuch as he is something else (Lord maybe, or possibly firstborn) he does? (Or have all these terms been transferred by Christ and how do we know?)
d. Does the NT really intend to collapse ‘serve’ and ‘submit’ into each other so that we can swap them in for each other? Is service and submission really the same as love (or almost the same)? When Paul says through love serve one another is he basically saying the same thing twice?
3) If we put ‘serve’ in instead, it works for you for verse 22. But “as the Church serves the Lord in everything, so wives should serve their husbands in everything” raises the same questions I’ve raised. Do we offer two types of service to the Lord? In one case it is a joyful submission to his authority and in other places (like here) it is a mutual service? Or when we serve the Lord mutuality is always on view between him and us and this word group also is devoid of authority connotations in the NT when used of Christ and us/God and us?
4) I don’t know where this goes, so I’ll throw it in here. If this view is right, then why doesn’t the NT (as far as I know) never say that God submits to us, that Christ submits to us? If the meaning has been transformed, surely the way to drive that home, and possibly cut off 2000 years of complementarian dead end exegesis and ethical thinking would be to clearly and strongly state in several places that God submits to us. If the word has no authority connotations that’s a perfectly fine thing to say. We don’t have to hedge by saying, ‘he submits to our needs/need for salvation’ (that was what my Church used to say to avoid saying outright that God submits to us, but be consistent with the view that its base meaning had been transformed to remove any sense of submitting to an authority).
Dave@215,
I emailed you.
Just working out some responses to Mark that I can send. Any thoughts are welcome.
Mark said
I think egals have reconstructed ‘submit’ to mean something like ‘voluntarily yielding our own desires to put others first and meet their needs’. You won’t find that meaning in any greek lexicon I know of (not that I’m a linguistic guru) that covers extra-biblical examples. It is a meaning that simply doesn’t work in many contexts in the NT. Submit to the authorities = voluntarily yield your desires to put them first and meet their needs? Submit to God means I meet his needs?
My understanding is that a well accepted definition of submit is “voluntarily yield to”. When I first started to question these issues a few months ago with one of the staff at my church, he pointed me in the direction of “Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood”. On p166 George Knight (a comp) quotes from BDAG p848 that submission is “voluntary yielding in love”.
I expanded that a bit as to how I see it operating in practice in the “one anothering“ that goes on in church to give ‘voluntarily yielding our own desires to put others first and meet their needs’. I don’t know if other egals would agree with this definition, but of course, as you rightly point out, this whole definition is a bit silly when applied to other spheres like governments, slaves/masters, and to Christ. But I think you have focussed on the way I apply the yielding to one another rather than on the yielding itself which is the heart of submission. Sorry to cause confusion. If I say what something means I should just stick to what it means rather than how it applies to me in a particular sphere. I hope that helps to clear up many of the comments and questions below where you discussed the weaknesses of the way I understand submission.
So in order to have one consistent definition that applies in all spheres I would just leave it with the core meaning of “voluntarily yield to” in agreement with George Knight and BDAG. I think this can be applied to submitting to one another, as well as to Christ, the government etc.
As I see it, if it is just “voluntarily yield to” then this can be done to someone whether they are in authority or not. We can “voluntarily yield to” one another and also “voluntarily yield to” the government. So I think just because the word submit is used in the bible doesn’t necessarily imply that it is to an authority. How do you understand “submitting to one another” if you see submission as always to an authority? Eph 5:21, Eph 6:9, 1 Pet 5:5, 1 Cor 16:15,16. How do you understand what these sort of passages are teaching?
You were wondering about extra biblical examples. I believe 1 Clement 37:5-38:1 explains the Christian duty of submission to one’s neighbour.
Mark said
It still raises the question I asked you earlier in this context. There is a parallel here between husbands and the Lord. If the submission to Christ that the Church offers is without authority then it is for wives to husbands.
Yes, because submission to one another has to also be in the mix, and it is difficult to see authority there. Perhaps the word authority isn’t there because it is not essential to the meaning of the word submit and Paul is concerned about encouraging submission and not authority.
Mark said
And so my question to you is – do we sometimes submit to Christ in an authority-kinda-way but we don’t other times in the NT? And if so, how do we work out which submit is on view in which text? Or do we never submit to Christ in an authority-kinda-way, submission to Christ, God, ruling authorities et al just does not have any authority connotations in the NT?
I’m not sure that I fully understand your questions but I will have a go.
I think it is possible to submit to Christ for various reasons- some of them good and others not. I may submit to Christ because He is my King and my Lord and he commands me to submit to Him because of His authority. I think this is appropriate because He is Lord of the universe.
If the NT says for me to submit to Christ because he is my Saviour who loves me and gave his life for me it results in the same action (submission) but for a different reason, and I don’t think authority is what it is about. I think it is possible to submit in a Galatians error legalistic-kinda-way. It is also possible to submit to Christ in a John 15:9-17 “you are no longer my servants but my friends whom I love” kinda-way.
We can respond to Christ in submission out of respect for his authority or out of love and thankfulness for all he has done for us. Both are valid. Ephesians 5, and the head-body metaphor seem to me to be emphasising the latter.
Ok — here is my response to the first of Mark’s points that I said I was going to respond to. His words are in bold, followed by mine.
My point is that both the Jewish (missed by Kristen when she classifies my position as a simplification) and the Roman societies had fathers in charge of children (certainly including adult dependents as she says), husbands in charge of wives, and owners (predominantly but not exclusively male) in charge of slaves. And they didn’t see one of those as patriarchy and the other two as not patriarchy. All three were fairly naturally paired together – Paul’s household codes aren’t all that revolutionary by putting those three relationships side by side.
And I’m not sure I’m slipping in ‘marriage equals patriarchal marriage’ as an unchallenged assumption. My point was, I thought, that that is what marriage was for both Paul’s Jewish and Gentile readers. They didn’t have an abstract view of marriage and then go, ‘and of the ways marriage could be structured, we opt for patriarchal’ – they had one view of marriage: patriarchal. My statement has to do with what is being understood by the society and so what the words Paul writes are going to mean to that audience.
This is precisely the point I was making. When we understand what Paul’s original audience would have been expecting to hear, what he was describing were not rules for patriarchal marriage (or slavery, or parent-child relations) as they knew them. The words would have startled them. They would have been surprised, first of all, that in a “household code” such as they were used to hearing, the wives, slaves and children were addressed directly, as if they had some choices of their own to make. The household codes common in that day (and, as I understand it, familiar throughout the Roman Empire, which would have included in Palastine) addressed the patriarch, the pater familias, only, and addressed him in terms of how to properly govern his wife, children and slaves.
They would have been surprised, secondly, by the words Paul used to the husbands/fathers/slave owners. Nothing is spoken about ruling. Nothing is spoken about authority (look at the head-body relationship as described in Ephesians itself, Chapters 1 and 4, and you will not see the word “head” as it relates to “body” spoken of in terms of authority-over, but in terms of raising up to be together, in terms of provision, and in terms of nurture and growth). The husband/father/slave owner is instead told to “give himself,” with a picture of Christ in the act of ultimate self-giving. He is told about how Christ brought His church to Himself by cleansing and making her holy. He is told not to exasperate his children, but to give them training and instruction in the Lord. And he is told to treat his slaves in the same way (!) as his slaves have just been told to treat him. The passage begins by speaking in terms of mutual submission (Eph 5:21) of all believers to “one another,“ and wraps up by explaining to the patriarch that there is no favoritism with God (Eph. 6:9).
The “one another” pronoun in the original Greek is a pronoun of “reciprocity,” as stated in both LSJ and BDAG. It is only used in the NT for “situations where there is mutuality or reciprocity,” as explained by Philip Payne in Man and Woman, One in Christ, pages 279-280. Since it is nonsensical for all Christians to have authority over one another, the word translated “submit” in Eph 5:21 (which in the earliest manuscripts is the verb governing v. 22, which itself has no verb) need not always convey the idea, “yield to authority.” “Voluntarily yield to one another” is the clearest understanding of Paul’s meaning.
Secondly, Philip Payne’s book quotes M. Barth as stating that around the same time that Paul was writing his letter to the Ephesians, a “new type of marriage” (neither “sacral” nor “patriarchal contractual”) was slowly making its way into common practice. Barth characterizes this as “marriage where mutual consensus guaranteed the rights of both parties.” (M. Barth, Ephesians, 2:656, quoted in Philip Payne, Man and Woman, One in Christ, p. 274). Non-patriarchal marriage therefore would not necessarily have been completely foreign to some of Paul’s wealthier, more educated readers– though the patriarchal system and its common household codes would still have been the most common form of marriage. Paul’s teachings would have been surprising, as I said– but the idea of mutuality in marriage was not so completely foreign that Paul’s audience could not have grasped the implications of his words.
It is when we come to the text from our 21st-century Western mentality, expecting that patriarchal marriage is just one (and certainly not the most prevalent) form of marriage, that Paul’s words look to us like they are supporting a patriarchal structure, rather than just accepting its reality in that culture as something that must be worked with. From the perspective of Paul’s original readers, I do not think that would have been the case at all.
Here is my response to Mark’s second point.
I think the ‘lay down power’ here is pretty tendentious. Almost any complementarian would say something like all this, but would say that what is going on is the reshaping of authority to be used as an exercise of service to those under authority rather than as a lording over them. My question here is – does Jesus model the kind of way of using authority that Kristen is speaking about here? Does he use it with humility? does he lay down his life, does he not exasperate us? And would she (and you) be happy with describing that as Jesus ‘laying down power’ in his relationship with us?
I certainly wouldn’t be happy to use such language about the one I call Lord. And yet he is the model, and I don’t see it as a model of laying down power, but of using it in a servant way.
And again, this is the kind of ‘this but that’ reading that is just so hard to pin down. Is Paul writing in such a way that indicates that these relationships have authority or not? Kristen seems to be suggesting ‘yes’ – but in such a way that over time we’d move beyond the letter of what Paul has said to the spirit of it and move to more egalitarian relationships. You seem to be saying ‘no’ – there’s nothing in these texts, we need to look elsewhere.
These comments open up the whole question of authority. Authority– what it is, what it’s for, and who has it– is often an unquestioned assumption made by believers based on their own church backgrounds, rather than something examined fully in the light of Scripture.
Jesus said in Matt 28:18-19, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. Therefore go and make disciples. . . .” Any authority that anyone in the church has, therefore, is actually Christ’s authority and not his/her own. In Titus 2:15, when Paul tells Titus, “Encourage and rebuke with all authority,” the word is not “exousia,” (“have rights/authority over”) but “epitage,” which means a command from God to be passed on. Delegated authority is the only authority we humans have.
The first question, then, is “do husbands have delegated authority from Christ over their wives?” As I have written before, I think the authority of husbands was a culturally given thing, an outgrowth of the Fall, and not from Christ at all. The New Covenant is marked by its departure from such external distinctions as “Jew and Greek, slave and free, male and female.” Gal. 3:28. If the authority of the husband/father/slave owner was man-made and not from heaven, then what Paul was talking about was not wives being under any divinely delegated authority of their husbands. (I do note that the only place where the word “exousia” — “rights/authority over”– appears in relation to husbands and wives is in giving them reciprocal rights/authority over one another’s bodies in the marriage bed, in 1 Cor. 7).
Secondly, Mark’s question about how Jesus relates to the church is interesting to me. I myself feel very happy and comfortable saying that Jesus, while He walked on earth, carefully and deliberately modeled humility (“I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls,” Matt. 11:28), laying down his life (“He took our infirmities and bore our diseases” being shown as coming to pass not just in the Crucifixion, but when He worked through the evening and into the night healing people in Matt 8:16-17), not exasperating us (“I no longer call you My servants, but My friends,” John 15:14) and laying down power (“He got up from the meal, took off His outer clothing, wrapped a towel around His waist [dressing as a slave] and . . . Began to wash His disciples’ feet.” John 13:4-5).
In light of this, Mark’s words, “I certainly wouldn’t be happy to use such language about the one I call Lord,” sound very much like Peter’s: “No! You shall never wash my feet.” Jesus was dressing like a slave, acting like a slave, and doing a slave’s job. He was not, at that moment, exercising any authority over the disciples. He did not command Peter to let Him wash his feet, but only told him the consequences if he did not allow it. I do not see this as “using power in a servant way.” It is simply taking a servant way– which is what He did as a model for us. His exercise of authority over the church is never shown as a model for us– only His servanthood to the church is shown as a model. Even so is the husband asked to model Christ’s laying down of His life in Eph. 5 — in the way Christ “gave Himself up for her,” “cleansed her,” “presented her to Himself,” and “feeds and cares for” her. Nowhere does Paul tell husbands, “command her, exercise authority over her, lead her,” or any similar language at all.
Christ does have authority over the church– although the head-body relationship as set forth in Ephesians is never described in terms of authority. My conclusion is that when Paul tells wives to submit “as the church submits to Christ in everything,” I think he was telling wives to voluntarily yield to their husbands in all ways in which the church would yield to Christ. This would have included husbands’ authority, because husbands did have authority in that era. But the husbands are simply not being addressed in terms of the proper way to exercise authority. They are being told to stop acting towards their wives in terms of authority at all– to start acting in terms of mutual submission, laying down their lives, giving themselves, and raising their wives up. In short, it’s not the responsibility of those being ruled– the children, slaves or wives– to change the “ruler-ruled” paradigm. It’s the responsibility of the ones in power– because they’re the ones who can.
(I must also note here that the church would never need to submit to Christ in terms of being dominated over, abused, neglected, or asked to follow into sin. Therefore, wives today who are submitting to husbands who still insist on always being the one in the lead “but doing it in a servant way,” may feel themselves justified in ceasing to submit if that leadership becomes abusive, neglectful, domineering or otherwise sinful.)
Finally, I will say that I worship Christ, follow Christ, and obey Christ– but in my prayer times and times in Bible study, I simply do not always relate to Christ from a ruled-to-Ruler stance. Many times I simply rest in His love. Many times I pour out my troubles and fears. Many times I just tell Him how much He means to me. The Spirit of Christ is sometimes overpoweringly strong– but many times He comes to me “gentle, [as if] mounted on a colt, the foal of a donkey.” Jesus made that particular gesture, riding in on a donkey, in an era when kings went about with huge pomp and ceremony. The amazing statement He was making is sometimes so familiar now that it is lost on us. But yes, it is just such language that our Lord encouraged to be used about Him.
Ok, getting back to answering Mark.
Several of his paragraphs subsequent to the ones I have already addressed are expansions on the same issues. So I’m going to comment only on the ones that are left that my earlier comments did not address.
First, there’s this:
1. The Bible indicates that marriage is built into Creation and New Creation, and is good.
2. The Bible doesn’t do that for slavery.
3. The society of the day had a unanimous strong view about both marriage and slavery that was patriarchal, and Jewish exegesis of the Bible understood the texts patriarchally.
4. The Bible does teach a structure of marriage, either patriarchal or egalitarian.
My argument was that the Bible does treat marriage and slavery as different – one is built in and fundamentally good, one is not built in and is not an unequivocal good.
I do not deny that marriage is built in from the beginning and shown as good. But I will say that the way I read it, marriage as an institution of patriarchy was not the way God originally conceived it– and the New Testament appears to overturn husband-rule as the norm for New Covenant marriage. I do not think that this would be lost on Paul’s original audience, as I have said. Paul was a Hebrew scholar. I understand that Paul was also Jewish, and it is true that in general, Jewish exegesis of the Bible understood the texts patriarchally. But much of Paul’s writing repudiates common Jewish understandings of many OT texts. Paul was not wed to rabbinic understandings. My question is, do the OT texts really show that God set up marriage from the beginning as a patriarchal institution? Because if they don’t, then given the nature of the New Covenant kingdom of God, it is quite likely that Paul had moved beyond Jewish patriarchalism in this area, and that he was trying to move his readers beyond patriarchalism too.
“And God said, Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness; and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and . . . over all the earth. So God created man in His own image, in the image of God created He him; male and female created He them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it; and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth on the earth.” Gen. 1:26-28.
What this shows is identical treatment of the man and the woman, and identical status of the man and the woman before God. He formed them both to be in His image and to have dominion, and then he told them to be fruitful and multiply and rule the other creatures. But to me, the important thing to note here is that for Paul, as for us, Genesis Chapter 2 cannot be read without a view to Genesis Chapter 1. The woman, no less than the man, is given rulership in Genesis 1. There is no hint in Genesis 1 that the man is in authority over the woman.
It is in the next chapter that we see the words “help meet” (note that these are two words, not one): “And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him an help meet for him.” Genesis 2:18.
It is important here to note that the name “Adam” is simply the Hebrew word for “human.” Genesis 5:2 says, “Male and female He created them, and blessed them, and called their name “adam” (human) in the day when they were created.” Woman is not an afterthought that God happened to have. When God made the “adam,” the male and female human were in God’s mind from the beginning. But he created one “adam” alone at first, for a reason. Genesis 2:19-20 says that God deliberately brought the animals to the adam to name them, “but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.”
God then causes the adam to fall asleep, and he takes “one of his ribs” (the original Hebrew says “from his side”), and makes a woman. She is made of the exact same substance as Adam, so that he cannot claim her nature as different from his in any way. Adam recognizes what God intended him to recognize– that no other creature is of Adam’s own nature, but this woman is. And this is where the word “man” as in “male” is first used by Adam in regard to himself, “This is now bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” v. 23. But is a relationship of authority and submission being set up here? Was Eve created to be Adam’s help, as we understand it in English today– his “assistant”?
The Hebrew word there for “help” actually refers to someone who renders strong aid that is desperately needed. Most of the other times that this word, “ezer,” is used in the Old Testament, it refers to God. In Psalm 33:20, for instance: “Our soul waiteth for the Lord; He is our help (“ezer”) and our shield.” An “ezer” is not someone who is subordinate to the one helped. God as “ezer” is above the humans who cry for Him to be their “help.”
But the woman is not a “help” from a superior position, as God is, so the text in Genesis 2 adds a modification. The woman is a “help meet for him.” “Meet” in the KJV is an old word meaning “suitable to” or “corresponding to.” The Hebrew word is “kenedgo,” which literally means “facing him,” or “as in front of him.” The idea is that here is a help (strong aid) that is not above Adam, as God is, but is face-to-face with him. Equal partnership is strongly implied by this phrase.
God makes the woman because one “adam” alone is not good. The “adam” needs a strong aid that stands face-to face with him. God wants the “adam” to recognize this strong, face-to-face aid for what she is, so God makes sure the “adam” knows that this being is not like one of the animals, but is of his own substance and nature. Genesis 2 then concludes with a parenthetical– that it is because of this manner of creation that man and woman are to join in marriage and be “one flesh.” There is still no hint of subordination of Eve to Adam. In fact, the later subordination of the woman to the man is clearly shown in Genesis 3:16 to be the result of sin.
Would Paul really have understood that because Adam was made first, and because he named the animals, this put him automatically in a position of authority over Eve? If you take 1 Tim 2:15 and overlay it over the top of Genesis 2, it may seem that way– but can we be sure Paul would actually have read Genesis that way? The Bible clearly shows that the reason God had Adam name the animals was because God wanted to show Adam that there was no “facing-him-strong-aid” to be found among the animals. And even if naming something implied authority over it, Adam did not name Eve till after the Fall– in Genesis 3:20. When Adam said, “She shall be called Woman, for she was taken out of Man,” he was not naming the woman. He was simply distinguishing both himself and her from one another as male and female. The Hebrew word for “called” is a different word from the word used when he “named” the animals and “named” Eve. If the idea of “naming” has any meaning of “authority” at all, then it is interesting to note that Adam did not name Eve until after sin had entered the world and after God told Eve, “he shall rule over you.” (Notice, too, that God did not give a command to the man, “See that you rule over her,“ but merely made a statement to the woman, “He shall rule over you.“ Male rule, like thorns and thistles and pain in childbirth, was a consequence of the Fall, not a command of God.)
Nor is there any indication in Genesis itself, that being made first put Adam automatically in authority over Eve. If being made first implied authority, then the fish and the birds would rule the land animals, and the land animals would rule the humans. But God made the human alone at first so that God could show the human how much he needed an “ezer kenegdo.”
Looking at other Old Testament passages about marriage, we definitely see that “ruling over her” quickly became the norm in Israelite thinking. The Law largely assumes that men are going to consider their wives and daughters to be their property, and sets up certain parameters to give women and wives some protections. But even within those parameters, we often see God working with and through women in ways that elevates and ennobles them. Deborah, Miriam, Abigail, Esther — all were used by God in ways that indicated grace and dignity far above man’s usual treatment of woman.
And then Christ came. And He did things like tell Martha that Mary didn’t have to serve in the kitchen but could come sit and learn as a disciple, right in the same room with the guys. He spoke to the Samarian woman in theological discourse, in a way very similar to that in which He spoke to men like Nicodemus. Unlike the way the Old Testament’s point of view is fairly consistently male, Christ frequently would tell one parable featuring a man’s perspective, and then another parable featuring a woman’s perspective, in a parallel fashion (see for instance Luke 15:1-10). In short, Christ made it plain that while Israel’s law was male-focused, the kingdom of God was focused on men and women together.
And then we get Galatians 3:26-4:7, which is one of Paul’s great statements about the nature of the New Covenant community brought about by Christ’s death and resurrection.
“For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female, for ye are all one in Christ Jesus. And if ye be Christ’s, then are ye Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise. Now I say: That the heir,, as long as he is a child, differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all. . . Even so we, when we were children, were in bondage under the elements of the world: But when the fulness of the time was come, God sent forth his Son, made of a woman, made under the law, to redeem them that were under the law, that we might receive the adoption of sons. . . Wherefore thou art no more a servant, but a son; and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ.”
Looking closely at this passage, it is not referring only to salvation; this is not just about the fact that people of all races and both sexes can become part of God’s family. See the last part of this section of Scripture: “that ye might receive the adoption of sons. . . and if a son, then an heir of God through Christ.” That phrase, “adoption of sons,” was a special legal term in the original Greek, referring to the full legal standing of an adopted male heir.. Adopted male heirs had the same status as freeborn male sons, with all the privileges and benefits that sons enjoyed in that culture.
Paul is saying that “in Christ” Jews and Gentiles, slaves and freemen, males and females, all have full and equal status as adopted freeborn “sons” in the family of God. It was not Paul’s intention that a freeborn Jew, after reading this passage, would feel able to tell a Gentile or a slave, “There, you get to be saved just like us; now be content with that, because positions of authority in the Kingdom belong only to freeborn Jews.” Such flesh-based distinctions are part of the “elements of the world,” (Gal. 4:3), and these “elements” are not part of God’s covenant community in Christ. And according to the same passage, this applies to “male and female” distinctions too.
In other words, when the New Testament is looked at as a whole, it appears that Christ’s coming was meant to change the damaging effects of male-female relations created by the Fall, so that wives can again become the “face-to-face strong aid” of their husbands. 1 Cor 7 makes this abundantly clear in the careful, line-by-line parallels indicating equal reciprocity that Paul shows throughout the marriage-advice section. “Let each man have his own wife/let each woman have her own husband.” “Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her/likewise also the wife to her husband.” And so on and so on, throughout the whole passage.
Looked at in this light, it becomes hard for me to believe that Paul’s passages about practical Christian living (including marriage practices in Eph 5 and church conduct in 1 Cor. 11 and 1 Tim 2) were meant to override his principle in Gal 3:28 that in Christ, oneness between the male and female is being restored through equality of status and full “sonship.” It seems to me instead that Paul was working out how those principles of equal status could be worked into the culture in which he and his readers found themselves.
(Note: the more I study 1 Tim 2:14-17, the more it looks to me like Paul was addressing a specific problem distinctive to the church at Ephesus in the early to mid-first century. According to Greek scholar Philip Payne, the word “permit” in the Greek almost always implied a case-specific injunction. And Paul’s general grammatical practice was to use the first person singular, present active indicative tense (translated here as “I do not permit”) to indicate a current desire or conviction, not a universal, timeless command. Philip Payne, Man and Woman, One in Christ, p. 320-21. I simply do not think Paul intended this passage as an interpretation of Genesis such that we can read it back over and into the meaning of the original Genesis passage in the way complementarians do. We need to read it instead, in light of what the New Covenant Kingdom is supposed to be.)
So what it comes down to is that as far as I can see, the whole New Testament, including Paul, gives women a new, equal status with men, restoring them to what was lost in the Garden. Practical issues had to be worked out in light of the situation the young churches found themselves in, but the weight and thrust of the Scriptures as a whole is for male-female functional equality.
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I will address Mark’s last point as soon as I can. Today’s my 23rd wedding anniversary! And I have to start getting ready for an evening out with my sweet equal partner and best friend. (grin)
Ok, this last section is pretty volatile. I hope it doesn’t make Mark terribly angry– but he was blunt and direct about what he said about the egalitarian position, and I must in honest rebuttal, do the same.
Calvin and Luther don’t try and reintroduce slavery into the 16th Century, for example, which one would expect them to do if Christians have always considered slavery to be normative. The early church did not campaign to keep slavery going, or hold it up as something universally and unqualifiedly good. So it’s a misperception about how the Church understood slavery – similar to the argument that all Christians believed that the Bible taught a flat world before Galileo. There are a number of early church fathers who believed (like many philosophers at that time) in a round world.
So the issues aren’t parallel. The mainstream tradition did not think that slavery was obligatory (i.e. normative) – that God wanted slaves in all times and places. Usually people argued (at most) that it was possible under certain conditions. And there had been different views on the shape of the world. But no-one believed that the passages in question taught an egalitarian view of marriage. The people arguing for slavery didn’t just peg their case on the household codes either – they drew on a wide range of texts as well for their position, so that part of the argument is wrong as well.
Further, there is a disanalogy in that those contesting slavery and arguing for a round world were going against the grain of the society of the day, while those supporting the received position were reflecting the consensus of their society. In the current debate that shoe is on the other foot – egalitarianism is the view that seems reasonable and obvious to our unbelieving contemporaries.
I agree with the basic point – have to show from the Bible as a whole, and not just assume. But I think the other side has to be in play as well. To say that the whole church got it wrong for two thousand years about something so ethically important is a big claim. To say that at a time when the view in question simply reflects the moral intuition of our own society is an orange light. The teaching of scripture has to be really, really, really clear for that to be the case. And egal reasoning on these things is hardly ‘clear’, even if it is true, it is more like ‘torturous’ or ’subtle’ as a description. That can’t decide matters, but it needs to be given some significant weight.
I must begin by saying that though Calvin and Luther don’t try to reintroduce slavery into the 16th century– and though the Roman Church had influenced the decline of slavery in the Middle Ages, serfdom was an institution well into Calvin and Luther’s time, and to the best of my knowledge, neither one spoke against it. Serfdom was, of course, a form of slavery– only it was bondage to the land rather than to the slave owner. Serfs could not be sold away from their families, therefore– but neither did they have the power to leave the land they were bound to. I would tend to say that as a whole, the church has had an ambivalent attitude towards institutions of slavery. The church also had a somewhat ambivalent attitude towards marriage in its early years, believing virginity and celibacy to be spiritually superior; which of course is one attitude that Calvin and Luther both worked to change. And it does seem as if evangelical Protestantism has gone too far the other way, discouraging singlehood as an equally viable choice for Christians, which I firmly believe the New Testament teaches to be the case.
So I will agree that marriage and slavery are not exactly parallel. But it’s not saying a lot to say that those who used the scriptures to defend slavery drew on a wide range of texts, not just the household codes. It is the usual case that a person holding a certain position as “biblical,” will draw on a wide range of texts that they believe support their position, directly or indirectly. The point is that slavery, parenthood and marriage were all part and parcel of first-century households, and therefore it does make sense to look at the passages that deal with the three of them as a group, as what is said (and not said) about one, may have some bearing on what is said about the other two.
Nor do I think it’s saying much to say, “no one believed that the passages in question taught an egalitarian view of marriage.” They didn’t teach that– not in the way you mean. The most that I can say as an egalitarian is that Paul believed that Christ had restored the relations between the sexes such that men and women could be “one” in their full, equal status as “sons” in Christ– and that this equality must inform the relations of husbands and wives, in a culture and setting that were patriarchal. To say the passages have “egalitarian marriage” in view is to be anachronistic– just as it would be anachronistic to say Paul was “anti-slavery.“ But this does not mean that the passages can be said to “teach” or uphold slavery or male rule in marriage– rather, the passages address slavery and male rule in marriage facts of that society which the infant religious movement had to accommodate. But accommodation is what I believe Paul was teaching. It is in this way that Paul’s teachings about slavery can inform our view of what he meant by his teachings about husband-rule– for if he was not endorsing slavery as a divinely mandated institution, we cannot say he is clearly endorsing male rule as divinely mandated either– not in light of his statements in Galatians 3 and 4 about “no slave or free, no male or female” and Christians from all these groups being “adopted as sons” and “one in Christ Jesus.”
Why, then, did “the whole church get it wrong for two thousand years about something so ethically important?” The first reason I would give is that “he shall rule over you” was a consequence of the Fall, just like thorns and thistles in the fields. We still have not managed to eradicate thorns and thistles, though we still fight against them. The male desire to rule over the female is something intrinsic to the fallen human nature, and no easier to eradicate than the thorns and thistles– and in the case of male rule, for most of history the human race has made no attempt to fight against it, but males who wished to rule in Christendom have used it as one of the building blocks of their power.
Which brings us to my second reason. Why did the church believe holy war in Jerusalem was a way to honor God? Why did the church as a whole uphold the “divine right of kings” as a biblical mandate? Why did popes use the name and authority of the Apostle Peter to build their own personal wealth and influence?
Because it is a fact of history that through the ages, Christians in places of power or privilege have used the Scriptures as buttresses to their power and privilege. Any statement in the Bible that can possibly be used to do this, has been so used, and many are still being so used today. Spiritually abusive sects like the shepherding movement have used the Bible to uphold the authority of leaders over the rank-and-file members. The domestic discipline movement uses it to uphold a husband’s “right” to spank his wife. Southern United States slaveholders taught that the curse of Noah on the sons of Ham meant that the black race was intended by God to serve the white race. Upholders of Apartheid in South Africa taught similar doctrines. The English aristocracy taught the peasants to pray, “God bless the king and his relations, and keep us all in our proper stations,” and preached that stepping out of the station to which you were born was rebellion against God. Many of these sects have taught that they way they interpret the Bible is the way the church has interpreted it since its inception, that their position is therefore privileged, and that the Bible “clearly” supports their position over and against that of the opposition.
In fact, if you will click on this link:
and begin reading at around page 45 at arguments put forward for black slavery against the Abolitionists in the United States, you will find the following ideas (these are summaries of the arguments):
That the Church has traditionally, for 1800 years prior to the the current age, supported slavery.
That the plain sense of the Scriptures is pro-slavery.
That the problem is not the institution of slavery, but the abuse of it by some men.
That those who oppose slavery are bowing to the godlessness of their own modern culture.
That the African race is designed by God to be under the white race, as can be proved in the book of Genesis, and is happiest when it embraces that design.
Whether or not any of these arguments for black slavery had any real basis in history or Scripture is another issue– but the fact is that the arguments, when reduced to their basics, look very much like many of the complementarian arguments. It is the nature of human beings to use whatever arguments are perceived as having the most power, in support of their position– and there are few things in our world even today, that have as much power in the human mind, as Scripture. Therefore, what ought to get the “orange light” are positions on Scripture which tend to uphold the power of groups that have long held power– when Christ’s parable about not seeking the highest places at the banquet, is in direct opposition to such uses. (I am not saying complementarians are deliberately seeking power– and I’m certainly not saying their hearts are wrong or that the oppression of women is their goal. But these human social trends and historical patterns are things that need to be looked at steadily and honestly. As you said, this can’t decide matters, but it needs to be given some significant weight.)
In light of this, this argument:
“Those contesting slavery and arguing for a round world were going against the grain of the society of the day, while those supporting the received position were reflecting the consensus of their society. In the current debate that shoe is on the other foot – egalitarianism is the view that seems reasonable and obvious to our unbelieving contemporaries”
seems lacking in perspective. The movement that eradicated black slavery in England and the US was largely made up of Christians, and weight and thrust of the whole counsel of Scripture was used by these Christian groups to uphold the idea of the full equality of the races, against those who would cite certain texts as means to uphold white power. In the same way, most of the pioneers of the early feminist movement– the women’s suffragettes– were Christian in beliefs, outlook and foundational ideals. These ideas are not so much offspring of the Enlightment as they are offspring of the Second Great Awakening.
Both movements were very counter-cultural in their inception and in their long, hard-won fight against oppression. The reason they seem “reasonable and obvious” to us now is because they succeeded in persuading society of the injustice of the opposing view. Are our idealistic Christian forerunners now to be rewarded for their blood, sweat and tears by having their position mistrusted for having won?
Another thing is that the current complementarian position is not actually what the church has believed for 2000 years. Complementarians believe that women are equal, but have different roles such that the roles of authority in the church and home belong to men. The long-held traditional view of the church has been that women are inferior in mind and body and are designed to be under male authority, not just in the church and home, but in the business world as well. Since women have now abundantly proved that they are just as capable as men in the secular sphere, modern complementarians have re-examined their Bibles and found that to uphold the notion that women are inferior to men, or that women should not be allowed any place in society other than as keepers of the home, is not as biblical as the church once thought. Egalitarians simply take this a step further and say that if the weight and thrust of the whole counsel of Scripture is for female equality, why would this not be full, functional equality in all spheres of life? Is the position that women belong under male authority in the church and home, really as biblical as the church once thought– and as many in the church still think?
That pretty much concludes my arguments. I recognize the volatility of some of what I have shared in this last section, and though I have spoken bluntly, it has not been my intention to judge complementarians or any of my brothers or sisters in Christ. God bless.
Where’s Cheryl?
There you are! 🙂 Just saying *hi* and want to make sure you’re doing okay! Miss you Cheryl.
Ditto!
Rob, since there’s no way I would submit to your teaching authority, I guess we’re even.
Excellent point, Craig and very deep thinking that connects two related points in the same letter!
Craig,
You are correct in that emphasis is through word order. I did not know that the first word in that way could be taken as a definite. Very interesting.
Also my new article is up on line here http://strivetoenter.com/wim/2011/06/25/specific-or-general-woman/
Craig,
If you have the ability to scan that page and email it to me, I would be interested in looking at it.
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