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“I also believe there is much significance in the fact that this concerned believers in Crete. Paul described them as lazy and irresponsible (among other things). It stands to reason that the women there were not minding their homes, so the believing women who were elders were to get these lazy women up to speed socially.”

Excellent point Paula.  You illustrate yet another reason why we cannot just helicopter verses out of the contextual home (which includes the era they were addressing) and interpret them without any clothes on.  Context is always key.

“She plays to her strength, I play to mine and the Lord acts as the conductor to this great orchestra, leading it to accomplish his desires.  Its not without its trials however, and I would admonish any who dare try what we are doing to be forewarned, its not for the faint of heart… “

Great description Mike!  Sounds awesome.  FWIW, it is good to remember that growth and learning is always a struggle and sometimes painful.  But all growth is worth the cost. It is sad that other’s have not seen the blessings as you have.