Cheryl Schatz

Abby,
Welcome and I am glad that you stopped by! I am always glad to have those who are more on the complementarian side visit because it helps us to remember there are more godly Christians out there who are not exactly the same as we are.

You bring out some very good points. That abusers don’t see themselves as they are. They are justified in their own eyes and if wives just let them treat them with disrespect and with abuse, they are allowing them to sin. Honestly, I think that John Piper would learn a lot from some one like you. I see wisdom in your words. I fully agree that men who give husband license to sin while counseling the wife to let them sin “for a time”, it is following satan’s pattern of destruction.