pinklight

“The point is, in both situations the husband/elders/leaders put others first and dont lord it over others/wives.”

Do you mean that by husbands and leaders/pastors/elders putting others first that people become more like christ, have the best chance to, or just mainly? Putting others first is a principle for all and not just for husbands or leader/pastor/elder and so I’m wondering what the principle has to do with husbands and leaders/pastors/elders making people become more like Christ? It is Christ like to put other first, and so is this the main responsibility of just leaders or all christians? What about putting others first has to do solely with husbands leaders/pastors/elders?