Hannah Thomas

”’He will always strive for the ideal of agreement.”’

This scripture doesn’t say strive for the ideal in his sense of this. The bible is very clear, and he has no trump card of the ‘last word’ in this circumstance. If they attempted to use any common sense at all they would realize WHY that would be!

I’m sorry but the way they setup this ‘leadership’ and ‘authority’ situation for themselves – it makes it very hard to deal with those that refuse to treat the family as they claim they should. The fact that they truly never spend in real time that reality of life for some? To me is shows they don’t know what to do about it. I have seen them touch on the subject of cruel authority within the home, and it was always followed by a BUT to the woman. They never grasped the fact that when you do that? You are handing the cruel man a trump card he will use next time. Yes dear but remember the BUT!

There is reasons for the ‘no authority’ in this sense within the intimate times. If you use your authority you create fear, intimidation, violation, among other things. You don’t ‘strive’ for agreement. The bible is clear – you get one or you don’t go there. Its like they don’t think these things all the though! I mean HELLO! Please attach some common sense to this! Maybe God had a reason for what he said?!

I will use a saying I heard years ago, “Gag me with a spoon!”