Kay

Nicole,

You have obviously learned very well many lessons from your parent’s relationship. I’d like to encourage you to take these lessons you have learned and move forward in your own adult life.

I know you “know” this, but it bears repeating, nothing in you is lacking and children are not responsible for their parent’s marriages. Period. It is perfectly o.k. to grieve the loss, but we must move forward and accept the fact that we can’t change the past. And it does not have the power to ruin our tomorrows…unless we allow it. We need not be bound by fear.