Kay

“Well, God has no gender…I’m not sure what you are getting at here.”
gengwall,
Exactly – God has no gender and a lot what we have termed “female/feminine” qualities that cannot be separated from His “male/masculine” qualities along the lines of “Father” or ”Son” which could prove that male/masculine = Father/Leader & feminine/female = Son/Follower/subordinate.
And even if we could do so, that still leaves out the Holy Spirit.