Alison

@ truthseeker: Heavens to Betsy! I never thought (who’da thunk it) that there could be a flaw in God’s design! Ye gads and little fishes….what next? Unfortunately, that idea, I think, kind of shoots the “design” argument of a lot of complementarians.

To make this personal: My fiance does not seem like a strong “leader”; he might be seen as more of a “follower”. Is there, then, something “flawed” in his design? Is there something then “flawed” in my design since I tend toward being a stronger “leader” than he does? I’d love to know. Seeing it on that level really exposes the huge flaw in the logic and the issue then becomes a goose chase of who erred in the first place: us, or (Heaven forbid) God?