gengwall

Would I like it if my wife deferred to me in all decisions? Absolutely! Does that mean I actually want her to? Absolutely not! Why? Because sometimes I am ignorant and sometimes I am shortsighted and sometimes I am ruled by my flesh and sometimes I am downright dumb. Conversely, sometimes she is intuitive and sometimes she is insightful and sometimes she is led by The Spirit and sometimes she is downright brilliant. Why on earth would I trust me to decide everything for us when we do such a better job at it.