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2012-01-08 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Eph 5 Infected

In my last post, I presented one of the best sermons that I have ever heard on Ephesians 5, regarding the evidence of Spirit-filled lives for both men and women. This post is on the opposite of the Spirit-filled life which is an influx of worldly infection through male-centered pride

2010-01-19 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Spiritual Abuse Recovery

Last year I blogged about Dr. Barb Orlowski’s research on spiritual abuse

2009-12-16 debate Cheryl Schatz

Putting Women In Their Place

The November 17, 2009 CBMW blog post by John Starke that we started to evaluate last post , is an amazing “piece of work” that exalts the 17th century writings of a Puritan named Richard Baxter who attempts to put women in their place. Starke continues to summarize Baxter’s writings:

2009-12-08 debate Cheryl Schatz

Comp Spiritual Abuse

Can complementarianism ever be considered spiritual abuse. Before we can discuss this, we need to know what spiritual abuse is

2009-11-30 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Does God Torment Women

## Is it a sin for a woman

2009-11-10 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Comp View Of 1Cor11 Mark

This post is a first. I have never before taken the writing of a complementarian and posted it on my blog

2009-11-05 commentary Cheryl Schatz

The Dark Side Of Submission

## The Dark Side of Submission

2009-10-31 debate Cheryl Schatz

Women On Trial

I have just uploaded onto youtube 6 approximately 10-minute clips from my 2006 talk in Pennsylvania at the Witnesses Now for Jesus Conference. I have added the videos below

2009-08-21 debate Cheryl Schatz

John Piper On Submission In Abuse

## John Piper: “What should a wife’s submission to her husband look like if he’s an abuser. ”

2009-07-24 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Jimmy Carter Leaves Sbc

## What made Jimmy Carter leave the SBC

2009-03-08 debate Cheryl Schatz

Reaching Unity In The Faith Without Authoritarian Control

The picture above represents not only the “bride” of Christ held back and controlled, but women in the “bride” of Christ held back and controlled. It is a great concern to me that there are many in the body who think that authoritarian control is needed to keep people in line and to keep the unity o

2009-01-24 debate Cheryl Schatz

The Emperor Has No Clothes

In the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood’s book Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood , chapter 3 is written by Raymond C. Ortlund, Jr

2009-01-15 commentary Cheryl Schatz

They Are Sinning Through Questioning

The issue of women in ministry allows us to the opportunity to ask questions about the hard passages of scripture and to work through these passages to discover God’s intended meaning through the inspired context. But in many quarters, questioning is a “sin” that will get a reprimand from a strong a

2009-01-09 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Recovering From Spiritual Abuse

Recently I was contacted by Dr. Barb Orlowski who has compiled her research on spiritual abuse into a manuscript that will form the basis of a yet unpublished book called “Ministering Restoration: Recovering Spiritual Harmony”

2008-09-11 debate Cheryl Schatz

Who Cares

I got a special hug today from Dr. Cynthia Kunsman a very brave lady who has been fighting a battle against authoritarian spiritual abuse

2008-09-04 debate Cheryl Schatz

Ministry Produces Fear

Wade Burleson has produced a thought-provoking article about character assassination that comes as a result of fear. Wade writes :

2008-08-21 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Women Ministry Sins

*This original post created on August 21, 2008 has been changed/updated on September 11, 2008. I have given the individual listed below time to show integrity by stopping the stalking and the vitriol, but this individual is not repentant nor will she remove the offenses on line

2007-03-31 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Should A Woman Fear Using Her Spiritual Gifts

Can a woman serve God with all her heart without fearing that somehow she is violating a commandment by God. This segment is a preview of part 7 of the 4th DVD of “Women in M inistry Silenced or Set Free

2007-01-20 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Discrimination Of Women In The Sbc Can They Teach Men At All

I have been following a blog documenting the injustice done to Dr. Sheri Klouda a professor of Hebrew who was forced out of her teaching position at the Southern Baptist Convention’s Southwestern Theological Seminary because the new President, Paige Patterson, does not believe that women should be t

2006-10-27 commentary Cheryl Schatz

Godly Women Need To Repent

My heart goes out to Pastors who are so engrained in tradition that they can easily justify sending godly women to hell. This past weekend I spoke with a Pastor from a denomination that does not believe that women are allowed to teach the bible to men

Related Comments (20)

Just A Berean 2008-03-07T10:35:57-07:00

Wanderer wrote: *“I just don’t know why people are allowed to speak ill about others here if you do not personally believe that it is acceptable.”* I’m sure you are aware that there is a difference ...

Dane Eidson 2008-11-11T21:20:17-07:00

I am not a big international TV evangelist. Nowhere near and don’t want to be. But i do host a cable TV program and it is uploaded on YouTube and GodTube regularly. I will do what I can to warn othe...

Dane Eidson 2008-11-24T23:22:59-07:00

**Hey folks! I thought I would update yall on what’s going on with Because of Calvary, Inc and with me and my family. We are most definitely in the process of putting a V Bulletin Board up. It will ...

Lin 2008-08-30T12:02:52-07:00

“T”he interlinear tells me that it is *The Faith* that these men were ruining, not individual people’s faith. They were turning people away. And I don’t believe Paul would turn **unbelievers** over to...

Janice 2008-09-02T03:29:08-07:00

Lin wrote, *Many of the abusers I knew in Christendom were not public false teachers they were private spiritual abusers.* Hey!  I knew a fellow like that.  He said all the right things from the p...

Cindy K 2008-09-23T13:04:07-07:00

Cheryl mentions “milieu control” in this post, and the topic of what actually defines a cult came up on Wade Burleson’s blog discussing the same thing. This is a comment I just posted (a little late ...

Lin 2009-01-11T10:45:16-07:00

“Barb writes that healing from such spiritual abuse entails finding someone to confide in to help unravel the abuse and lay it down in order to experience healing.  She lists the steps to recovery and...

Cheryl Schatz 2009-01-11T12:15:14-07:00

Lin, I hear what you are saying.  For those without a safe place amongst their family and friends, it can be especially hard.  Many people when they are forced to leave their churches because of some...

Jael 2009-01-14T07:56:28-07:00

I am blessed whenever I read all your posts.  It is refreshing to see fearless dialogue among brothers & sisters in Christ.  Thanks Cheryl for being there!!  I am very blessed to know you and hopefull...

truthseeker 2009-05-13T11:42:40-07:00

Dr. Barb, I just peeked at your site and can’t wait to finish reading all that you have written. Those of us who have experienced spiritual abuse need not only the correct facts and understanding of w...

Mara 2009-09-27T06:34:18-07:00

Mark: “Do you think the husband has any authority over his wife?” First of all Mark, Hi. I’m not Cheryl but am glad to see you here. Second, I want to say that I am probably one of the ones who is ...

A. Amos Love 2009-09-03T11:46:33-07:00

Ladies I hurt for you, and the struggles with this abomination of “abuse.” I love your reasonings and your responce to the foolishness of Piper. Here is my pain with him and others that call themse...

A. Amos Love 2009-09-05T09:09:03-07:00

CLC This is how I’m seeing it now. I do reserve the right to be wrong. I’ve changed my mind a few times after I knew I really knew it all. ;o) We are warned that some will preach another Jesus. ...

A. Amos Love 2009-09-08T12:39:19-07:00

Help!!!! Can anyone help me. Does anyone know, or think they know, or even disagree with, what I’ve been trying to say about elders/leaders/pastors? I believe it is a very important part of what ...

Lin 2009-09-08T14:59:17-07:00

“Help!!!! Can anyone help me. Does anyone know, or think they know, or even disagree with, what I’ve been trying to say about elders/leaders/pastors? I believe it is a very important part of what...

A. Amos Love 2009-09-12T08:49:39-07:00

Lin “Having what some think is ‘authority’ or leadership over others is a huge sin trap.” Yes, “a hugh sin trap” I have seen the dangers of “Titles,” of “Pastors,” and of “leaders.” Spiritual a...

Lin 2009-10-28T14:42:26-07:00

“Of course it all begs to ask the question who is covering all the young (or old single) women of the world. I have noticed both in Mark Driscoll and Matt Chandler (both Resurgence blokes) the idea th...

Sam 2009-11-06T22:24:43-07:00

Thank you for answering my question! I’ve been on vacation and just now saw this post. I’ve been reading the Bible since I was a small child and never found any of this stuff about women (or men) nee...

Cheryl Schatz 2009-11-07T01:21:30-07:00

Sam, > This “covering” teaching is an invention, a lie, and often results in spiritual abuse. Absolultely!...

Cheryl Schatz 2009-11-07T15:27:15-07:00

Lin, You have made a good point about forgiveness. Many misunderstand the process and think that forgiveness without repentance means that we must let the person back into our lives. True forgivenes...